"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeaaaaah.... what the fvck is going on around here? I finished this btw, so whats going on?
 

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Yea... I think it died out, I was done too, but oh well. at least we did something???
 

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No, we've gotta finish this forreal. I guess Ill do what SPEAK was doing and orient the rest of the bootcamp to high schoolers and Ill post it up tomorrow.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, due to a series of family misfortunes and a lot of drama and school and sh1t, I got distracted and wasn't even able to complete the week. And i think it's too late for me to get re-energized and back in the game for this current camp.

I'm going to take a week recovery time and then start it up again from week 1, and I think I can do it better this time.

Good luck to all you guys who really stuck with it and are still going, I'll be looking forward to watching how you guys do. But if anyone would like to join me in another start up thread next week let me know. Otherwise, I'll be doing it solo, good luck guys.

I really am ashamed of myself, but next time WILL be complete, and NOTHING will stand in my way, there will be no sagging of commitment. Anyone else who bailed in with me?

good luck bros
 

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Hey sorry to everyone, I have had a lot of things to take care of as far as colleges and what not. Bootcamp moderating was low on my list!

I am ashamed to admit that I have been avoiding it though, and I would really appreciate it if E-sex would take the reigns of this project

However, I have never quit anything before and I WILL NOT quit this. I would really appreciate an extension until the end of this weekend so I can catch up to you guys.
 

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Ok so I wont have them up today, but I dont plan on having them due until a week from friday anyway, to clear up any confusion and allow every one to get on the same page.
 

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Week 5

so first things first read the articles in week 5 of the boot camp.

And as for exercises:
Attempt to set up ATLEAST 5(you can use numbers that you previously had as well, as long as its a first date) dates
Have ATLEAST 2 dates
Approach ATLEAST 2 girls(in school) for number closes
Approach ATLEAST 2 girls(outside school) for number closes
Approach ATLEAST 2 MORE girls(in or outside of school) for number closes

Also, you have TWO WEEKS to complete these, not just one. 14 DAYS!!!

Everybody cool with this?
 

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So idk if im the only person still here, but Ive gotten 2 numbers so far. 1 in school, 1 out of school. In school i had talked to the girl before but I made it clear that we needed to get together outside of school, and so I got her number. And the same pretty much for the girl outsid of school except I hadnt talked to her in a couple years I think.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well as long as you have everything done by this weekend its fine, and I was setting deadlines on fridays not sundays, but I think ill set this deadline until sunday since dates will probably happen on the weekend.

Ive gotten 3 numbers
had 1 date
set up 3 dates
 
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