"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AlexLefty said:
??? What happened to that brotha

Also, I wanted to get a recap on all the REAL men, who are still in here, and all the fvcking pvssys that quit.

Still in:
Myself
SPEAK
ESex
Tiesto???

I commend you guys so far! Except for chris because he didn't post results for today! Post something good or bad!

Also Esex, did you do the first 2 weeks in 1 week?


Goodnight playas
Dude, you forgot me!

anyways In total so far I got three 8-10 min convos with Hb's over 6
The first one was on the bus, I recognized this girl in my class and decided to say hi and it went form there. The second was this girl who I kept seeing in the hall. Again I met her on the bus afterschool and she was talking about music and I butted in, we hit it off from there. The last one was today. I went over to my friends house and there was a HB 8 sitting beside him. So we hung out and I got to know her. I also asked this girl i was interested in to hang out, but she kept saying no indirectly which was a bummer because she is cute. Oh well, thats one rejection. This weekend is gonna rock because im playing a show which will give me a huge opportunity to finish these convos. Oh I also talked with a busdriver today if that counts for delivery person??

Week two
* 2 Elderly people - One
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza) Maybe? if busdrivers count
* 1 Gas station worker
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person - Done
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) Done
* 2 cute girls (In your school) Done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! Done

Week Three
3/8 convos
1/2 rejections
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hey, I see yall are progressing so far, and if it isnt to late could i join?
 

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Alright today at the football game I talked to two different cute girls and had a conversation with each. I forgot to use kino on the first, but on the second, I reminded myself to continue to apply kino and by the end of the night she was showing me way more interest than she was before. During both convos I kept a laid-back joking attitude, teasing the girls a bit and I think it worked out real well.

2/8 conversations
0/2 rejections
 

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I Finally got the gas station worker from week 2, talked to him about school and university. Kept saying how he missed highschool. And I was also selling tickets, but I only talked to this couple long enough to consider it a conversation. No cute girls or rejections since yesterday.

Week two
* 2 Elderly people - One
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza) Maybe? if busdrivers count
* 1 Gas station worker- Done
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)- Done
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person - Done
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) Done
* 2 cute girls (In your school) Done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! Done

Week Three
3/8 convos
1/2 rejections
 

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* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) done
* 2 cute girls (In your school) done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! 1 done

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1/8 Conversations
0/2 Rejections

I'll get some more tomorrow. :rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I had my homecoming yesterday and I can finally see the work start to pay off since I joined SS. Unlike the last three years, I decided that I would just be an alpha and dance (grind) with whoever I felt like. Things went slow for the first portion of the dance but eventually I got into that DJ state of mind and not only did I dance with more girls than I can count on one hand, I also got two of my AFC friends into it too and hooked them up. It felt great to be on the other end for once, having only danced with maybe three girls at the last three homecomings altogether. By the end of the night I also managed to get my two rejections in, which felt great because I actually wanted to get them tonight. I just figured, your loss b!tch, and found my next target ;)

I didnt get a chance to talk to talk for over two minutes to any of the girls I danced with but I'll definitely keep an eye on them during this school week and try to get some convos in

2/8 conversations
2/2 rejections - DONE
 

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Still not done week two, gotta talk to a black person. I did get one more convo with a cute girl today, we were hanging out and I just got to know her. I think I found a girl I am actually interested in, for the past year I've been hooking up with girls, but didn't really care about them because they were boring as hell!, but this one is interesting. I'll still be spinning plates, but I think I might put more attention into this one.

Week Three
4/8 conversations
1/2 rejections
 
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God well i've completley fvcked it so far. My whole weekend was wasted arguing with my dad over school and stupid sh1t (parent teacher conferences didn't go so well) which basically lent me to doing sh1t on the weekend. Im still at 1, but I think I can get to 10. Fvck me, Let's do this.

yo speak, call me up tonight, i need some major motivation
 

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Talked to 2 girls at the same time for one minute, so I'll count that as one.

I gotta get going on this.

* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) done
* 2 cute girls (In your school) done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! 1 done

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2/8 Conversations
0/2 Rejections
 

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getting rejected was easy.. 2 of 2. for the convos, 3 of 8
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Had a crazy weekend. Got in trouble cause my dad walked in on me having sex with this virgin and it was terrible (the sex and the situation) It was an interesting situation with her because she was a platonic friend turned fwb, but that probably will never happen again.

As far as convos go, I had a couple with these girls I met at a carnival my school had, and 1 today with this girl who worked at a clothing store, I had to show her how to type an underscore haha.

I havent tried to get any rejections, I really need to get on that, I have to do it tomorrow, get in the right mindset and all of that.

So yea,
6/8 convos
0/2 rejections
 

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Okay I have a confession to make. I have been slacking on my conversations. And by slacking I mean I have totally fvcked them up and am not getting no where. I still have the mentality that I am already really good with people and its no big deal.

I will fix this mindset. I am also going to postpone this week (week 3) until friday.
 

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E_Sex said:
Had a crazy weekend. Got in trouble cause my dad walked in on me having sex with this virgin again
It seems like you already got **** down haha

SPEAK said:
I will fix this mindset. I am also going to postpone this week (week 3) until friday.
Thank god. I got 2 today at school, but after school went to the mall with a couple of friends to try and get some but pvssed out :box: This sh1t is really pissin me off. If I can just get one more friday or saturday I think I can do it no problem

total: 3/10
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Weird story, so I got pissed off today for some reason, so I decided to walk around in spare. There I had a conversation with a black construction worker about the trades business. So finally done week two. That's not all, after I finished talking with him I noticed it made me feel better, so I went around the cafeteria invading the various cliques. I only did three, and got rejected by one girl I tried to talk too, so thats 2/2 rejections. And I talked with two cute girls in these groups and got to know that names of everyone there, so now I have more options to hang out with people during spare!

My motivation is now back guys! hopefully it stays!

Week two - Done

Week Three
Conversations 6/8
Rejections 2/2
 

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AlexLefty said:
It seems like you already got **** down haha
I wish. That is farrrrr from a regular occurence lol. I had a convo with this cute chick that worked at H&M today, but I didn't ask her out or anything, I should of, might of gotten my rejection.

7/8 convos
0/2 rejections, need to work on it.
 

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I got at least two conversations that I remember today. As I came back from lunch, I saw a girl who I legit haven't seen since 8th grade (she went to a private HS until this year) and she's gotten way hotter than I remember. I'd say from a HB6 to a HB8. We walked in together and had a conversation. It wasn't anything substantial, just catching up talk. Then after school, I ran into a girl that I've had a crush/one-itis (the one that drove me to SS) since freshman year. I felt in the zone since I just got done working out so I went and start a short conversation with her. I teased her a little bit and even got some kino in. Definitely something I would never have had the balls to before I got here. But anyways, I'm just in a great mood right now and it feels good to look back and see how far I've come from.

4/8 conversations
2/2 rejections - DONE
 

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Got 1 today
FVCK COULDA HAD MORE AHAAGGHGH
 

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Well I finished all of my convos, it was with this girl I had been trying to talk to for a while. But I havent even tried to get a rejection, dammmmmmn, I havta get em both tomorrow, have to. I will do it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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