"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don Juan Boot Camp Week #1

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Wow, I never knew saying hi to 50 people could be so hard. Its been like 5 days since i've started saying hi to 50 people(I only say hi to decent looking girls only) and I never knew it could be so hard. Everytime a decent looking girl walked by I wanted to say hi to her, but then I thought about what other people around me would think and I decided not to say hi. This happened a couple of times. I guess I shouldn't care what these other people think and I should just go with the flow.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyways the chicks I said hi to were for the most part pretty surprised somebody said hi to them in my opinion. I guess the reason was I said hi to them while they were about to pass me by and they probably got surprised by me. Ohh well its only 8 chicks I've said hi to and they probably didn';t think anything of it.

Anyways I always try to make eye contact with these chicks and several times I've been sucessfull in closing eye contact with these chicks for atleast 5 seconds. This actually happened twice not several times. But that the main improvement I've made was in making eye contact and holding eye contact with these chicks.
Usually everytime a girl makes eye contact with me I chicken out and look away immediately.


On one occasion when I actually said hi to one of these chicks the girl seemed kinda embarrassed and I felt like she tried to avoid me the next time she saw me. (Comeone girls I ain't that ugly!)

Its really hard getting the balls to say hi to these chicks especially if they are hot. But I guess practice makes perfect. I really hate making up excuses while Im staring at the chick to not say hi to her. I really hate that. I don't care the next 42 chicks I see I am definitely going to say hi to them and look them straight in the eye and smirk like an idiot to them and say hi to them. Even if they laugh at me and make fun of me. I don't care. I really don't Im going to be sucessful in this. Definitely!!!
 
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Well Anyways, today I got 10 hi's!!! Basically while I was at school I said hi to a couple of girls and to a couple of guys.

I got to hand it to you guys about saying hi to guys as well to girls. At first I really thought it was totally absurb saying hi to a guy, who wants to say hi to a guy? But after saying hi to a couple of guys, it made me much more comftorable saying hi to the girls. Actually just saying hi to people in general makes me much more comftorable saying hi to hot girls when they walk by. So you guys were right!

Anyways the first couple of hi's I said to the ladies was saying hi just as they were walking by me. Which made them turn their heads around to me, and say hi back to me. Before the lady said hi to me her head was down and she wan't even looking at me even though I was giving her eye contact. But she seemed happy to say hi to me.

Anyways today I also said hi to a couple more girls walking by as I was at the gym. Some of them greeted me kindly others of them said hi to me in a soft voice and didn't seem to want to talk to me. Guess they don't like guys with a 9 inch ****.

But saying hi to these broads gave me so much confidence that I went up to a girl that works at a gas station, said hi to her as I walked in the store, bought something, struck up a conversation and told her how pretty I think she is. And I asked for her number. She said she had a boyfriend, but she told me that I made her month by saying how beautiful she was.

Anyways I got 32 more hi's to say before I move on to week two. Hopefully I'll get them!
 
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