Jack Hensy
Banned
- Joined
- Dec 2, 2015
- Messages
- 171
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- Age
- 44
There is some pretty good stuff in the DJ Bible but some should be taken with a grain of salt.
For example its discussed to kill the desperation:
-always giving the women attention.
-calling all the time (and calling immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, etc.)
-taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself)
-always available.
-NEVER willing to walk away (NEVER willing to disagree, ALWAYS supplicating).
-etc.
Always giving the woman attention. A flawed argument. I beg to differ on too much attention. I have experienced and witnessed firsthand that not showing enough attention will make a girl walk out of a relationship or date. I lost two girlfriends because I didn't show them enough attention. I eventually got one of them back and I showed her lots of attention and she fulfilled my dreams. Not showing attention to a girl back in the day before the internet may have worked, but nowadays with Tinder, POF, and Match.com and countless places to meet people --- if you re not showing a chick attention --- poof she is gone in a heartbeat.
Calling all the time. Another flawed argument. Calling and being mysterious is one thing but if she suspects for a moment you are a player -- you are done. Most women hate players. Her definition of a player is someone missing in action or disappearing----which means you are chasing other girls in her mind. Been there, done that. All girls I have dated disliked when I didn't call them enough that eventually they broke things off with me and moved onto someone who cared about them and called a lot.
Taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself) - THIS WORKS. I give credit to this one. Never talk about yourself. Always keep it about them. Good one.
Always available - This works.. Cant be too available which makes you a challenge.
NEVER willing to walk away - GOOD ONE. You must always walk away and not put up with BS or if your boundaries are being crossed. Tried it and tested it every time without fail.
For example its discussed to kill the desperation:
-always giving the women attention.
-calling all the time (and calling immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, etc.)
-taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself)
-always available.
-NEVER willing to walk away (NEVER willing to disagree, ALWAYS supplicating).
-etc.
Always giving the woman attention. A flawed argument. I beg to differ on too much attention. I have experienced and witnessed firsthand that not showing enough attention will make a girl walk out of a relationship or date. I lost two girlfriends because I didn't show them enough attention. I eventually got one of them back and I showed her lots of attention and she fulfilled my dreams. Not showing attention to a girl back in the day before the internet may have worked, but nowadays with Tinder, POF, and Match.com and countless places to meet people --- if you re not showing a chick attention --- poof she is gone in a heartbeat.
Calling all the time. Another flawed argument. Calling and being mysterious is one thing but if she suspects for a moment you are a player -- you are done. Most women hate players. Her definition of a player is someone missing in action or disappearing----which means you are chasing other girls in her mind. Been there, done that. All girls I have dated disliked when I didn't call them enough that eventually they broke things off with me and moved onto someone who cared about them and called a lot.
Taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself) - THIS WORKS. I give credit to this one. Never talk about yourself. Always keep it about them. Good one.
Always available - This works.. Cant be too available which makes you a challenge.
NEVER willing to walk away - GOOD ONE. You must always walk away and not put up with BS or if your boundaries are being crossed. Tried it and tested it every time without fail.
