"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don Juan Bible Classes

MVPlaya

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LISTEN UP MODERATORS...

I think the most revered document on this site is the DJ Bible, but... as the Bible says, unless you commit (in the form of online classes, you aint getting none out of it)

SO!!!

I propose that under "Don Juan Discussion Forum" we have a section known as DJ ONLINE CLASSES (or any name that is more appealing) where we have a new batch starting each week. As in right now a week 1 class will be there, but next week this class will be week 2 and a new week 1 will begin for the RAFC and so on until these classes become "retired" and new classes are formed. I want to partake in these classes and EVERYONE interested give me a holler.

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UPDATE: OCT 19/03

I JUST STARTED A NEW BOOTCAMP THREAD,
WEEK 1 STARTS OCT 21 / 2003. IF YOURE INTERESTED, JOIN NOW!

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=39893
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eh, the DJ Bible is far too full of holes and misconceptions to even be considered revered... at least amongst those of us who've read the entire thing more than a few times (I've read it about 20 or so times). It is, however, a good basic introduction to the concept of DJism.

Bible classes? Next we'll incorporate as a non-profit organization called "The Don Juan Foundation", register DJism as a religion, and then build a physical church to house our ordained clergy.
 

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Instead of sticking a new thread every week, why not just keep one continous thread that would be stickied?
 

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Clarification

I didn't mean stick a new thread every week, I meant start a new batch, I would have one thread right now (which you are a member of), next week I'd rename my thread to DON JUAN BIBLE CLASS - Week 2 so that no new people jump in while at the same time allowing someone else to start a week 1 and not splitting the newcomers
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Instead of sticking a new thread every week, why not just keep one continous thread that would be stickied?
Instead of stickying a thread, why not just get all the posts from the DJ Bible and put them under one hyperlink where everyone can go at any time and reference the material?

Oh wait...:p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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