Don’t do at the bar what this guy did

[backseatjuan]

Firstly I walked past this ‘couple’, golding hands. Fvck that. Ew. But whatever, I had no clue they were going to the same bar I was going. Difference is I got a headake after yesterday they are having a first date Monday at noon. The choice of sit this guy had, her facing away from majority of bar, but they sat at a window. It’s always more compfortable to sit in the corner near a wall, or in this particular bar in a corner next to a television, that way you don’t have eyes on you. Whatever, for a moment I thought he had it. Untill he ordered some big ass plates of food for both of them. It’s no longer a bar date, it’s a restaurant date, girl is out for launch and some beer. I can’t imagine this sh1t escalating into something else. Plus serious talk. Ideally it should be in the evening, snacks no food, drinks and food back at your or her place if everything alright.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

It"s ok to chill at a table if you got some drinks but I wouldn't sit there all night. Got to move around, talk to friends, talk to strangers, show how you interact with people.. but always be 100% attentive as to how she feeling, is she bored? a lil nervous? is she paying attention? is she trying to have a good time for you? is she putting in any effort?

Hard to gather any information when you are both munching away on some chickenwings.

Late night diners are a staple of my game nights out so never waste a good time to eat together, that should be done after you guys have had some fun, then you get some food, not the other way around.

But in all honesty if that chick was really into him none of it matters.