"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dominant, B**chy Women Are The Ultimate Sh*t Testers

Frank2500

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My favorite kinds of women are those with somewhat dominant personalities who have their b**ch shields very high up, carry themselves with overwhelming confidence and use the intimidating factor as a major tool to test men's confidence. It's just such a turn on when you hook up with such a woman and get her into bed and show her that you the man are the natural leader, the naturally dominant one. And no matter how much of a strong personality she may have, she acknowledges that in you and lets you take charge. Yet on the street and in general she can be quite a hard nut to crack.

These are the qualities that drew me to the 43 year old MILF I banged two weeks ago. She tried as hard as she could to play hard to get but I had a strategy/game plan to make her fall gradually but surely. Now she calls me a seducer and is anxiously seeking that we have a second banging rendez vous.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes, I find them attractive at first, but I will tell you this....after a while the attitude gets under my skin and the frequent resistance wears you out. However, when you get them into the bedroom, sex is awesome. But at the end of the day, I often asked myself, "Is it worth it?"
 

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Re:

I agree with you both 100 percent that they're mostly only good for sex. Proud women never make good mates for longterm/serious relationships.
 

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Frank2500 said:
I agree with you both 100 percent that they're mostly only good for sex. Proud women never make good mates for longterm/serious relationships.
That's not pride. It's cvntiness.

If you remove the sex angle, they are hideously ugly (insecurities, shrewdness, emotional frigidity, ruthless calculation, negativity, what have you) females in polished armors/facades.

They' re only good for kinky sex, and only if you make'em assume the submissive part.
 
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I couldn't agree more! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
It's not attractive at all once they are settled in with you. It gets uglier from there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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