Dominance

[alphamale1]

Hey I only know one way to show dominance but i have some ideas of showing dominance but I dont know whether it shows dominance or not.....or whether its dominance.

Any more ideas?

1. When looking into their eyes, Look into their eyes and stay there until they move their eyes.
This little test i believe shows that the one who lasts the longest is more dominance and that the other is weaker

Here are the other ones..

2. When your in a group on the computers and instead of talking to the customers on the phone in your seat......talk while standing
and when you are interacting within a group and they are all sitting, be standing and talking and project a strong voice.
Am I right?

Reason why I feel intimidated is ****y and funny guy who stands sometimes and he stands nearly erect and so i do it sometimes but i always have one leg on the feet which is probably showing that I aint dominance enough as I cant stand on my own two feet and that I need a support. This guy has the ability to come off with something funny on the fly and stands up on his feet instead of all the other people who are sitting. Any one know?

Picture this...........54 people on the phone who are sitting on their seats in the call centre and only this one guy stands often while talks on the phone and does it when talking to people who are attracted to his aura.

3. When someone is talking to you and your sitting as ur talking to the customer, it seems better to stand up when someone is staring at ur eyes for long as they are testing dominance.
Cos i just get real awkward when i met one person very few of course who looks me in the eye without them moving their eyes first so i feel i should stand up so to meet them at this level

Have any of you's experience this? Post comments


Ben

 

[alphamale1]

I met my old ex gf yesterday and i wanted to show her dominance by looking in her eye......yes the battle was on......staring at her closeup for nearly 3-4mins, my eyes were getting very tired so i moved my eyes first.

Dammm next time i'll be better. She is a powerful girl but I will shyt over her next time this happens.

Ben

 

[Jvesti]

My Friend,

You are trying to accomplish dominance the nerd way. Dominance is a drive not a skillset. I think you have a lot of unraveling to do. You are probably an intelligent person thus are looking for an intelligent information solution to be dominant. Dominance is something very primal and in fact is a drive that comes out of the most primitive parts of our brain.

Focus on being strong as a person and knowing what you want and not submitting to anyone your dreams and goals. Be congruent with you, don't let someone dominate your physical or emotional state. Do things to increase your testosterone such as weight lifting, competition, self improvement victories etc.

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by alphamale1
staring at her closeup for nearly 3-4mins, my eyes were getting very tired so i moved my eyes first.

This is not normal! You should never hold straight eye contact for more than 15-20 seconds, let alone 3-4 minutes.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by alphamale1


Have any of you's experience this? Post comments

Yeah, throw those crap suggestions out the window because you are teaching yourself to act like a total creep ...

Dude, look, you are trying to do this THE HARD WAY that isn't really going to work for you ... You need to learn to develope natural confidence, strength, and intelligence along with good social skills ... It's a lot easier than what you are trying ...

Now, not to put you down, but the only people that are going to respond to your creep version of dominance that you have come up with are feminine gay men with no backbone of their own who want someone to take care of them.

A woman would just start feeling uneasy around you and wonder if you want to hurt her or why you act so oddly all the time and if you are going to do anything dangerous that will harm her or cause a disturbance, unless she is a nutjob herself and you don't want any nutjobs around ...

 

[thefonz]

Lyndon Johnson knew how to show dominance.....he would hold meetings while sitting on the can and doing his business with the door open.....I should try that. I know this really jacked guy who goes to my gym and shaves all his bodyhair chest and legs in front of the sink while talking to people at the sink next to him

You just don't mess with people like that.