"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Doing deadlifts - should there be any pain/stress in the lower back?

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I'm trying to start deadlifting, and I'm looking at all sorts of articles and threads here on how to do deadlifting properly, and I still can't tell if I'm doing it right. I read that you're not supposed to feel any pain in your lower back, but I can't do it without feeling it a little bit there. How much are you supposed to feel in your lower back while/after doing a deadlift?

Also, when you're fully extended during the deadlift, are your knees supposed to be straight and locked or bent?

Another thing, about your back- is it basically supposed to be slightly arched throughout the whole motion?
 
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

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