Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dog training videos and women

Alle_Gory

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Does anyone know any good dog training videos? Or any other animal training videos.

This could come useful. I want to know how these guys can train these animals to respond to their commands and treat them like the alpha pack leader.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leader does not equal alpha. Alpha`s definition is: "The alpha male gets priority acces to limited resources"(in the nature these resources are pvssy and food). A LEADER is someone who has the leader qualities, has the courage and the power to lead.

Your dog will not treat you like a leader or alpha if you are not one. Its impossible to deceive him with your body language. If you are alpha to him then he fears you and "knows" you are tough and unpredictable. If you are a real leader then he also fears you but he trusts you and knows your decesions are right(...much easier to train him this way).

If you feed him every day then he knows that he depends on you ....that is a different thing.
If you just want to teach him tricks ...that is a different thing too ...you dont have to be alpha or anything.
 
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