Hi,
I am 22 and doing my Ph.D in a very cute college-town in the midwest US. I am an international student (Turkey) and I have a long term relationship with a very beautiful girl for more than 3 years. We're likely to be away for another year, and I really like to try out short-term relationships especially with local cute girls. Just for the fun of it...
But apart from being extremely busy, I can't really get into the environment I need - the social field that my targets are wandering. I am one of those people who are very successful with women in a given, confined environment (where people get to know each other) and I have many short term relationsips in the past with both older girls ( 25-27 ) and younger girls (18-20)...
For the past 6 months, however, I really can't find a way out of this slump and my self-diagnosis is saying that I am not really interacting with girls. So I have some questions to the experienced people here:
1.) Is my failure partly related to my being international ? (eventhough I had relationships with many international (foreign to me) girls, and I speak fluent English)
2.) What are some logical ways to enter a social network of people who are already familar with each other? - (Apart from going to bars on fridays to sexually harrass girls) :crackup:
3.) How can I build up the interface I need to meet and attract zillions of girls that are around and available?
It's really killing me to see that these girls are vulnerable, they can be attracted and I don't have the channels to approach...
Please enlighten me with your valualbe comments.
I am 22 and doing my Ph.D in a very cute college-town in the midwest US. I am an international student (Turkey) and I have a long term relationship with a very beautiful girl for more than 3 years. We're likely to be away for another year, and I really like to try out short-term relationships especially with local cute girls. Just for the fun of it...
But apart from being extremely busy, I can't really get into the environment I need - the social field that my targets are wandering. I am one of those people who are very successful with women in a given, confined environment (where people get to know each other) and I have many short term relationsips in the past with both older girls ( 25-27 ) and younger girls (18-20)...
For the past 6 months, however, I really can't find a way out of this slump and my self-diagnosis is saying that I am not really interacting with girls. So I have some questions to the experienced people here:
1.) Is my failure partly related to my being international ? (eventhough I had relationships with many international (foreign to me) girls, and I speak fluent English)
2.) What are some logical ways to enter a social network of people who are already familar with each other? - (Apart from going to bars on fridays to sexually harrass girls) :crackup:
3.) How can I build up the interface I need to meet and attract zillions of girls that are around and available?
It's really killing me to see that these girls are vulnerable, they can be attracted and I don't have the channels to approach...
Please enlighten me with your valualbe comments.
