"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Doesn't The NLP Anchor Lose Effectiveness Over Time?

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Anchoring certain gestures to positive emotion is done by doing a certain gesture whenever you feel an emotion you'd like to feel.

I do admit it kinda works, but we usually need our 'boost' when we're feeling down, no?

So when we keep summoning our best emotions when we're feeling down, wouldn't our anchor slowly associate to the negative feelings? I don't know, just a thought.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you anchoring the most effective things? There are tons of positive emotions; for example watching the opening credits to Spiderman-3 on it's opening weekend. A month later how do you feel about it?

You can't expect to anchor just any positive emotion. Get a real book about NLP and not just rely on Internet posts. It'll teach you the proper way to anchor experiences, even if they had never happened.
 
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NLP is BS
 
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mrRuckus said:
Stunning analysis. I'm sold.
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You've got to be leary about anything that isn't "looks" based. :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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