Doesnt like kissing?

[OamImrsNemo]

So this chick does not like kissing. I recently read sir chancealots advanced sexual techniques....I feel like I could make her V3gina tingle more if I could get the heat up...But I think that needs some soft kissing or aggressive kissing...She doesnt like kissing not just a little like never...I have never had this when we hang out we have fvcked literally without kissing at all(which isnt always a bad thing) Only time she likes kissing is when she is drunk...Now I dont think its because I am a bad kisser because I have never had this before...she says its because somone said she kisses like a fish....Any input ideas?

 

[sodbuster]

Emotional damage? don't know,about all you can do is tell her you like it when she does. Otherwise, the line from Pretty Woman comes to mind "no kissing,then it gets too personal"[from julia-the hooker].

 

[CarlitosWay]

So this chick does not like kissing. I recently read sir chancealots advanced sexual techniques....I feel like I could make her V3gina tingle more if I could get the heat up...But I think that needs some soft kissing or aggressive kissing...She doesnt like kissing not just a little like never...I have never had this when we hang out we have fvcked literally without kissing at all(which isnt always a bad thing) Only time she likes kissing is when she is drunk...Now I dont think its because I am a bad kisser because I have never had this before...she says its because somone said she kisses like a fish....Any input ideas?

Umm...start kissing her neck passionately and nibble on her ear lobes than gradually work over to her lips, caress the back of her head/neck, tease her a little kiss than back off. I don't understand how a woman wouldn't like kissing?!!? Especially if done how I mentioned...

Do you smoke? Funky breath? Drink a lot? Are you real aggressive when you kiss? Do you slobber all over the place? Some of these things turn girls off majorly and some don't really have it in them to say straight out this or that about you.

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Dont smoke..Have good dental hygiene.. Dont Drink that often...I've tried soft kissing aggressive kissing romantic kissing forceful kissing I've tried it all...Its hard enough to suck on her neck, ex. She'll let me right before were about to **** she will let me kiss her anywhere before after...But like when were watching a movie and I playfully nibble her ear, try to kiss her, suck back of her neck she bats we away (even if the movie is boring haha)

 

[Ascyus]

did you close your eyes while kissing? i hope so and yeah pecking the neck is a real weak spot

 

[Kailex]

Do you smoke? Funky breath? Drink a lot? Are you real aggressive when you kiss? Do you slobber all over the place? Some of these things turn girls off majorly and some don't really have it in them to say straight out this or that about you.

Ding, ding, ding!!!

We have a winner.
You see, when I read the thread and then read the subject matter... my first conclusion was the thread title needs to be changed to:

"Doesn't like kissing ME?!"

I can almost guarantee that this is the case. There's something you are doing or not doing that's turning her off enough that she doesn't want to kiss you but will have intercourse with you. I actually had this problem with my last LTR. Something about her breath just turned me off from kissing her. I never told her, in fear of hurting her feelings, but I should have.

For five years, the most she'd get was closed-mouth kisses, but since I was giving her the best sex of her life, she didn't seem to mind.

 

[secks]

Means that she thinks you're bad.

I had a girl tell me thats why they say that. I guess I got better, because she wouldn't stop kissing me afterwards.

 

[OamImrsNemo]

I even straight up asked told her to tell me straight asked all of the above and sh says she doesn't know maybe doesn't like the feeling so I'm still cuiose but whatever a new challenge I guess

 

[Falcon25]

You have bad breath, no woman dislikes kissing.

 

[secks]

Bad as in bad kisser.

This doesn't mean you are a bad kisser in general, just that she doesn't like the way you kiss.

Try to see what she's doing, when she kisses, and mimmic or follow along with it. Every girl has a different thing they like or dislike. She might just not like your style.

Girls don't think logically, so you can't ask them.

A girl thinks: it doesn't feel good > I don't like it.

A guy would think: It doesn't feel good > find the problem > she's a bad kisser, so I don't like kissing her.

 

[boomerick]

Did you ever have this happen with any other chick???

If so ...it's you .......if not.....

If you've tried all that "lets fix it together" stuff and she still doesen't kiss it sounds like some kind of girly test or a control thing

You tried to be the smart nice common sense guy about this deal and it didn't work

Why not try......

The demanding uncompromizing assh*le approach.....

You- "...well hon, if you aren't even gonna try to change or improve from something that happened way long ago I'm gonna have to start looking for someone else.....I'm goin' out tonight don't wait up....."

Her refusal to deal shows that she either doesn't care about you....OR...that she likes getting you twisted up about one little thing she has control over......

I have been with a few girls over the years (!) and I have yet to be with one who didn't totally dig kissing....

I'm waving the BS flag on this one....call her on it or trade her for a model that works.

Over and Out.

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Well I know it not my breath (made sure it was minty fresh all night long) Maybe she just doesnt like how I kiss? I mean I asked her and told her it wouldnt hurt my feelings. She said she didnt know. Then I asked why when your drunk then? She said I dunnow then it turns me on. She asked if it really bothered me. I was like no I really dont like kissing anyways just most girls always wanna kiss me so this works out for both of us. (which I think kinda frustrated her) but then when we fvcked last night I grabbed her and made out with her during part of it. I been working on variety like in sir chancealots method, I usually always make her cvm when she is on top but I wanted to work on variety. So I tried a whole bunch of new sh!t and got her close to climaxing the whole time but she never came (maybe because of all the variety) Idk Im trying to become a better dj so I will be questioning the sh!t out of you guys. Ive been being more dominant with her lately and pushing all the oneitis and afc outta me.