"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Frenchconnection

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Ever in a situation where you hang out with friends and one of the girl you had a crush on brings a date?

Well this happened to me tonight, this girl I had a crush on ( I know sounds highschoolish..) Anyways, doesn't help she's a big tease n flirts with me all the times, so I have been keeping my distance.

However like an idiot, like a moth to a flame tonight I agreed to hang out with her and some friends knowing exactly what would happen.

So yeah she brought out a date which made me feel just wonderful :kick: .

I'm not blaming her at all, just me for being stupid to go. :cuss:

Anyways just me ranting...
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Juando

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So what if she brought a date?

The guy is *just a date*, and if you are interested in her,
why not let her know and proceed towards what you want?

Have you made your intentions clear to her?

The "date" is besides the point. I've been in situations like that
and what I've done is be cordial, talk to both the girl and her date.
If there is a channel open between you and the girl, she gets it,
even if you are talking about the weather; she gets it from your eyes,
your energy, your vibe.

If you hit a wall and crash and burn it's not the fault of the date, the problem is the girl, and whatever is between you and her.

I'm shameless, I've approached women in restaurants who I don't know,
talked to both the woman and her date, gotten her number and met her later.
You do that by including the guy, but the woman knows what you're after and if she is interested she'll respond. Not bragging, just to make the point that
if you are hot for her, go for it.
 
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Frenchconnection

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Yeah you're right, I didn't care for the date. It's just that I used to be infatuated with this chick.

She's a big tease and an attention *****, which I know is bad for me but like an idiot I'm still not thinking straight.

In any case, I did hit on a waitress tonight and maybe because of this situation I'm just fed up with not being aggressive enough. I may have to thank this girl later cause I'm waking up!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your title is misleading. I believe it does get much better than that.
 
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The Forms said:
Your title is misleading. I believe it does get much better than that.
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I was being sarcastic, I just got to start laughing at these things.. and thnx I hope it does..
 
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Frenchie, next time you see her blow out all the stops and flirt with her with reckless and wild abandon.....

plenty of delightful kino and innuendos thrown in as well.

...even with her date next to her.
 
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Interceptor said:
Frenchie, next time you see her blow out all the stops and flirt with her with reckless and wild abandon.....

plenty of delightful kino and innuendos thrown in as well.

...even with her date next to her.
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Ok I will but she got me turned off by her attention ***** like behavior...
 
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Frenchconnection said:
Ok I will but she got me turned off by her attention ***** like behavior...
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Understood. But give her attention the Frencconnection way.........

Everything on your terms now.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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THis happened to me once. The chick was playing the jealousy card to "get" at me. I remember that i liked the guy and got into a three hour convo with him about all manner of topics. A very interesting guy. We drank some beer and told some lies ...a lot of "secret men's business" . We kinda forgot about HER.
He also realized what she was trying to pull. Two smart guys vs one attention wh0re - no contest. She was PISSED... ho hum !

Some women are not smart enough to know how f**king dumb they are.
 
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Good one jophil haha that would have been classic to see her face when she starts to realize that her plan had failed.
But on topic if you do want to sleep with her then you should just go for it man, I mean she is an attention ***** and does flirt with you so why dont you call her on it. I mean say she starts to flirt with you well you should just escalate it kino her alot and start to kiss her neck and everything like that IF and she probably will pull away then call her on it ask her why she is flirting with you if she doesn't want to do anything about it and say you dont want to waste your time on girls that play kids games. She will be stunned for a little bit becasue she probably has never gotten called on her **** teasing sh1t because all the other guys she does it with are AFC"S but not you you are a DJ and you dont waste time on hoe;s like that. Good luck.
 
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