"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does your women want you to be controlling?

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OP, some chicks dig controlling guys, some chicks don't. I personally don't do that kind of sh*t because it reeks of desperation and it's anathema to my "I don't give a damn" personal style.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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post op trannies don't count.

Zarky said:
OP, some chicks dig controlling guys, some chicks don't.
Nice word play. Dominant was the word you cleverly replaced with "controlling" to give a perceived negative spin on it.

All women ( worth banging ) want to submit to a dominant man. I'll take a wild stab in the dark and guess your online male persona does the exact opposite and is swimming in puzzy? Even still that would be what's called an "outlier" if it wasn't transparent bullsh!t.
 
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zekko said:
But I set my frame out of strength, not weakness.
As I have always stated, it is the intent/motivation behind the act, not the act itself, that is relevant.

You could buy your exclusive partner an expensive piece of jewelry to buy her loyalty and affection as a beta, or as a reward for consistent acquiescence to your frame as an alpha. Same act, different motivation; different context.
 
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