"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does your mom annoy you?

Building_and_Loan

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lol I saw the title and thought I was going to read an account of a truly awful experience or lifelong tale of misery at the hands of your mother.

I can't believe how mad you are that your mom wanted to spend time with you. Lighten up man, it's not so bad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten

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Let me call up my 18 and 22 year old sons and ask them if i can drag them around all day and buy them doughnuts. .. they would do it for me and the doughnuts!
 

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Let me call up my 18 and 22 year old sons and ask them if i can drag them around all day and buy them doughnuts. .. they would do it for me and the doughnuts!
I wish my mom would buy me doughnuts.....Then again, she never buys me anything lol. She barely cares to cook hahaha. Don't even get me started on cleaning....

Well, the fact is that all these people love their parent because they no longer live with them. Well ****, put yourself in this guy's shoes, people! Can you stand living with your parents again? My dad loves my grandma to death but HATES it when she stays over. It's gonna be a true test of his [and my mother's] grit to see if they can handle being with her for 1-2 months cuz she wants to move in with us for a bit for whatever reason and my dad couldn't reason with her not to haha.
 
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