"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does your job matter?

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Authenticity in character is worth more than any salary or title when it comes to becoming a DJ. [/B][/QUOTE]







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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know that money does matter but how important is it?
Let say I'm making $30,000 a year and I like my job.

But how much of that weighs in a girl decision to go out with me?
Should I go for a career change to make more money?
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You really shouldn't base your decision of a career change because the girls might like it more (and I'm not even of the guys who say don't do ANYTHING because of women). Seriously we're all human and money does and always will matter..especially because it comes with status (people who say it doesnt are like people who say looks dont matter), but it shouldn't be the decisive reason when it comes to building a relationship. It should be more like a plus..and if you like you're job don't go for a career change if you don't like the direction it will lead you in. If you do, go for it. Can I ask you what your job is btw (unless you want to keep it a secret)?
 
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