Does your career define you?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

VladPatton

Master Don Juan

Dec 6, 2013

In my opinion, whatever you are most successful at is what defines you. What else would? You do that thing the best because you have a natural talent for it, therefore you got better at it by putting in hours upon hours of practice, therefore it is the love and passion for it that drives you. Nothing is greater than excelling at whatever you have the most passion for.

Oh, and if you have no passions in life then you're fooked! lol

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.