"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does Your C0ck control YOUR AFC behavior?

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Speaking on our second "brain". We're all men and men will be men. Does anyone else feel your "lil guy" controls AFC behavior in you at times? I mean think about it. We all talk for ages on strategies, help, etc on the forums but I believe ALOT of AFC behavior comes not only from being brainwashed by the media, parents, and PC society but from our instincts to mate with every damn hot lil piece of a$$ we see!

We take the advice given to us and try our best to use it to our advantage but then our d!cks "**** block" our new/existing DJ minset often times while speaking with a new or ex hottie and we revert to AFC behavior in an attempt to get some of that sweet Pvssy meat. And these women KNOW what we are after. Think about it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Are you crazy man? my c0ck always save me from afc behavior, there always the next girl, what this girl have that my c0ck cant have with other girl?
 

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Crazy like a fox. From alot of what I read here these guys are dying to be what? "Friends" with the women they are complaining about? They want that a$$. Plain and simple. Two brains dueling between the DJ one upstairs and the desperate AFC brain below. It may not happen with one...but you are going to the next in an ATTEMPT to get some from the next. The cycle repeats itself. And when you get it? You either ARE satisfied. Or you're not and trying to get some from another chick. Think about it.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
"Friends"
Are you telling me that your c0ck want to be friends with the pray?
 

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Dude you got it backwards. It's the brain that is holding back the penis.

The penis doesn't care about fear or rejection, it just wants sex.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maxtro said:
Dude you got it backwards. It's the brain that is holding back the penis.

The penis doesn't care about fear or rejection, it just wants sex.
Finally some wisdom.
 

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And these women can smell that we want it. That's why they try to play puppeteer with us. Think about it. How many posts does the "Masturbaition" thread have? Are all these people posting about comic books? Cars? It's about women and fantasizing about them. They know it and they use our drive for sex to try to manipulate us. If we didn't care. They'd be powerless.
 

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If you separated the penis and the brain and made them separate entities, I am pretty sure that Penis will get around more often and try to fvck anything in its path. Meanwhile, Brain will be the one overthinking and posting here on SoSuave about:

- She smiled at me, what do I do now?
- Should I text her to ask her out?
- She's the one for me! ...... but she has a husband and two kids.
- I keep seeing this girl at the library and want to ask her out but don't know how.
- Should I pay for an escort?

Or similar threads of the sort.
And while Brain is off posting away, overthinking situations and analyzing how to eventually move in for an F-Close... Penis has happily banged away on every woman Brain could have possibly wanted and then 50 more.

The penis isn't to blame. The penis can't think. The penis knows no control. If anything, the penis is the one trying to break us from the shackles of the AFC chains by saying: Stop thinking and just go and try to fvck her until she becomes a zombie.
 

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Kailex said:
Stop thinking and just go and try to fvck her until she becomes a zombie.
Dude im turning this into my sig lol.
 

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My **** is definitely a huge AFC.

I get majorly needy and dependant when im horny.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ease said:
My **** is definitely a huge AFC.

I get majorly needy and dependant when im horny.
Youre working in a Scarcity Mindset.
 

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GetOveIT said:
Youre working in a Scarcity Mindset.
No im working on a year long LTR mindset.

For me when i think of sex i think of my gf.

Wisdom: Not every principle is applicable in every situation.
 

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Ease said:
No im working on a year long LTR mindset.

For me when i think of sex i think of my gf.

Wisdom: Not every principle is applicable in every situation.
Which part of the body is required for thinking?

Have you ever looked at a naked woman who was your gf and got hard? Ever watch porn?
 

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This is an interesting topic but I think there is a lot more to it than just plain sex. Otherwise we would just go get a hooker and strap on 3 rubbers. Or wank off for that matter.


Its about companionship, a sense of stability, something we can RELY (this is key) on, family for some perhaps, etc.. Its something perceived as permanent (or long term).

These are all big picture items. They are highly sought after and hence us getting all crazy when we meet someone we THINK would fit into our big picture goal.

Having said that, girls want the same thing for the most part. They don't want to go around banging random dudes forever.

It sure doesn't seem like that sometimes though.... I certainly know that.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
And these women KNOW what we are after. Think about it.
They are supposed to know very well. Look even if your both brains don't want to fakk her, she still thinks you want to. So it doesn't really matter anyway.

Look, pretending total disinterest so you can game some nut job attention wh0re, it just isn't worth it. Too much effort and games for maybe one fakk. Normal girls are OK with being sex objects(sort of).

Just show some self restraint like you are in check of your desires and don't leave your principles outside, simply don't let your c0ck hold you hostage to a point that you beg for a piece of pvssy, that's all.

Forget the "play hard to get" games...that's for women generally and nut job AWs especially.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lakeshore said:
This is an interesting topic but I think there is a lot more to it than just plain sex. Otherwise we would just go get a hooker and strap on 3 rubbers. Or wank off for that matter.


Its about companionship, a sense of stability, something we can RELY (this is key) on, family for some perhaps, etc.. Its something perceived as permanent (or long term).

These are all big picture items. They are highly sought after and hence us getting all crazy when we meet someone we THINK would fit into our big picture goal.

Having said that, girls want the same thing for the most part. They don't want to go around banging random dudes forever.

It sure doesn't seem like that sometimes though.... I certainly know that.
Much of this craze is about social proof. "When my friends know I bed 100 women they will love me." It sounds a bit gay when I put it like that, heh.

Sometimes it is just fun hobby, I guess. It is a little bit of pis*ing in to the pool for other guys. Unless it is clear it is ONS the girl expects or wants to keep the guy...broken heart....next DJ encounters a lot more shyt tests and will have to wait 3 dates more for some nookie.
 

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lakeshore said:
This is an interesting topic but I think there is a lot more to it than just plain sex. Otherwise we would just go get a hooker and strap on 3 rubbers. Or wank off for that matter.


Its about companionship, a sense of stability, something we can RELY (this is key) on, family for some perhaps, etc.. Its something perceived as permanent (or long term).

These are all big picture items. They are highly sought after and hence us getting all crazy when we meet someone we THINK would fit into our big picture goal.

Having said that, girls want the same thing for the most part. They don't want to go around banging random dudes forever.

It sure doesn't seem like that sometimes though.... I certainly know that.

Dilusion and fairy tales m8.
 

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It's not your d!ck blocking your DJ mindset, it's the other way around, it's your brain sensing that you d!ck wants to fvck something, then your brain is engaging your old chump mindset to try to get it some, simply because it hasn't been rewired yet.
 
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