"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does weed help or ruin your game?

Mjazz

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Weed depends on so many things. In my experience, in order to get a boost of game when your stoned, you need to be relaxed. Most peoples minds get jumpy and fast when they are stoned. The way to relax your mind is to relax your body, at least when your high. I would recommend smoking in a hot tub with some of your friends, then going out. Puts you in a really relaxed mood, DONT FALL ASLEEP!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Me i find that smoking weed right before going to work its like a new founded diamond, normally i roll me one up and i smoke just enough to where im high but my eyes and face dont show it , boy do those 8 hrs pass by flying.

If you do this dont smoke to the point that your eyes are red unless u want to loose ur job
 

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Stay with satvia. You'll be up for it.:up: Sticky itcky makes me calm and happy.:crazy:
 

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I have been reading some of this article that marijuana like this bonzaseeds.com/blogs/strain-reviews/cookies-and-cream can help them cope with stress and it helps them relax. I haven't tried using marijuana but i plan to to help me with my stress but i dont know where to start. Can anyone give me any info that can help? Thanks!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Weed depends on so many things. In my experience, in order to get a boost of game when your stoned, you need to be relaxed. Most peoples minds get jumpy and fast when they are stoned. The way to relax your mind is to relax your body, at least when your high. I would recommend smoking in a hot tub with some of your friends, then going out. Puts you in a really relaxed mood, DONT FALL ASLEEP!
I agree, it amplifies whatever mood you're in.

Me personally, I'm a very aware person in general, so I don't like to be high in public, the change just comes on too fast. I'd rather drink slowly. That's usually my best route to highest confidence.
 

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Caffeine is better for that. Weed is better for the bat cave.
 

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im a chronic 35yr smoker, I act the same whether im stoned or not
most people dont have a clue until i mention it... I also suffer from chronic pain and dont drink much or do pills
 

MoreThanSmooth

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You know, I have no interest in drugs but I'm curious as to how people find someone willing to sell them weed simply because it's something I don't understand. Is it just through word of mouth?

I had a guy mistake me for a drug dealer once when I was walking to a party dressed in a hoodie. Apparently the bottle of lemonade under my arm wasn't a giveaway that I wasn't what he was looking for, lol.
 

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I tried weed in the past , and it's just gave me a headache.I tried it once again few years later when I have been in bed with a girl, and beside the headache my mouth got dry like the Sahara desert, and when I tried to eat her I hardly could open my mouth, needles to say she didn't enjoyed my sandpaper tongue,haha, Never touched it again.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Red Legg

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I become an idiot on weed. I also become lazy.

Confidence really is the ultimate turn-on.
Yes... in my experience only the very lazy are habitual weed smokers..it kills initiative.
 

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As far as I know there are some negative side effects such as impaired short-term memory and increased risk of lung cancer from using marijuana, though it is relatively harmless in comparison to other drugs like cigarettes and alcohol. A member of my family uses CBD oil for anxiety (more info on http://www.ncsm.nl/english/cbd-oil/cbd-oil-for-adhd ) and feels much better than when she was taking anti-anxiety pills with multiple side effects.
 
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Weed gets a bad rap for making people lazy, but I don't see what's so bad about that. If you like being lazy, you like being lazy.

Sure, if you didn't smoke weed you could probably work more, but then you're just being a better tax slave, and odds are you'll just blow the money on needless possesions that don't make you any happier.

People try to make smokers feel bad by telling them about their life's mission or their passion (basically, just to feel superior). So what if they're passionate about making money or their stupid hobby?

Most people aren't going to get rich or make a big difference in the world, so if they want to smoke weed every day, then I say toke it up.
 

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As far as I know there are some negative side effects such as impaired short-term memory and increased risk of lung cancer from using marijuana, though it is relatively harmless in comparison to other drugs like cigarettes and alcohol. A member of my family uses CBD oil for anxiety (more info on http://www.ncsm.nl/english/cbd-oil/cbd-oil-for-adhd ) and feels much better than when she was taking anti-anxiety pills with multiple side effects.
The cancer link has no real evidence behind it. When you look at populations of lifelong daily smokers in places like Jamaica and Belize, they have the same lung cancer rate as everyone else. If weed causes cancer, everyone in the Caribbean would have died already.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think that any drugs are bad and they don’t do any good.
 
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