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Does wearing a bikini make it more difficult for woman to be seen by men as a person?

MatureDJ

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http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/08/toward-a-new-understanding-of-modesty/278652/

Rey believes that the now-ubiquitous bikini hurts women. She cited a 2009 study conducted by Princeton psychologist Susan Fiske that asked 21 undergraduate heterosexual men to look at photos of fully clothed women, then look at photos of bikini-clad women. Fiske noted that the bikini images activated the men's brain regions associated with tools, or "things you manipulate with your hands." While some commenters noted that the images in the Princeton study were headless (thus already depersonalized), to Rey the study proved that the effects of the bikini are dire in a hypersexualized culture: "Wearing a bikini...shut down a man's ability to see her as a person."
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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A woman wears a bikini because she wants to show off her body.......she wants to be sexualized and fantasied about by men.

Notice that it's always ugly b!tches or feminine men that complain about women being sexualized and not recognized for her *ahem* "inner beauty".... this is a bullSh!t study...
 
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