The_Reaper
Senior Don Juan
I suspect it does. Or, it at least expands the range of interesting topics you can talk about, e.g. on a night out at a bar with some friends.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ofcourse you're going to flop if you just regurgitate what you saw on the stand up. It's all about learning the attitude of the comedian, his body language, his imagination and his creativity in the themes of his humour. Yes watching Stand up will make you gain a better sense of humour, but only if you know how to learn from it.Schwank said:No, it doesn't. I have a friend who watched Eddie Murphy's "Delirious" a few times and then tried to pawn off some of Eddie's jokes as his own. He fell flat on his face; my friend's not black and he doesn't have the personality to make such jokes work. Epic fail.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You gotta admit that had to of been fun to watch.Schwank said:No, it doesn't. I have a friend who watched Eddie Murphy's "Delirious" a few times and then tried to pawn off some of Eddie's jokes as his own. He fell flat on his face; my friend's not black and he doesn't have the personality to make such jokes work. Epic fail.
Jimmy Carr funny for the Lulz,CuriousGirl said:Well, watching british stand-up does.
I think the more you watch comedy and talk to funny people the more you start reacting to things with humour. It's kind of like a way of thinking, so I think it does rub off on you a bit.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I've seen jimmy carr live! He was the mystery guest at the end of a load of other comedians, I was second row from frontHeyPachuco! said:Jimmy Carr funny for the Lulz,
and it's all over.
Jimmy Carr has be the man for me, his outspoken sarcasm is out of this world.CuriousGirl said:I've seen jimmy carr live! He was the mystery guest at the end of a load of other comedians, I was second row from front
He's not my fave though, not sure. I love so many of them. I can only think of one good american comedian though, but I can't remember his name. is style is actually quite similar to jimmy carr.