rainier2000
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I've been seeing a girl from college off and on for the past two months. We're both really shy. She's a goody-two-shoes 18 year-old freshman who acts like she was raised by the Waltons. She has never mentioned dating or boyfriends before so I may be the first man she has ever went out with. Anyways tonight was our third solo outing together. I bought us IMAX tickets for the new Harry Potter movie. She wore lipstick, which is a first for her. I took this as a positive sign that perhaps she would like to be more than just friends.
During the dance sequence I worked up enough courage to place my hand upon hers. She turned around and asked "What?". I quickly said "nothing" then angled my body away from hers and put my hands in my lap, sadly defeated.
Now when a guy touches a girl's hand at a movie, isn't it quite obvious he wants to hold it? Or was my move so subtle she genuniely misinterpreted it as an attempt to garner her attention?
Then when I dropped her off tonight, she lingered more than usual, as though she wanted me to try something . . .
I'm thinking about inviting her to lunch and then delivering the following speech:
"You know how in the Goblet of Fire, Ron Weasley is too shy to put the moves on Hermione? Well, when I touched your hand at the theatre I was really wanting to hold it . . . I guess what I'm trying to say is . . . Would you like to be more than just friends?"
I realize you're supposed to show women you're attracted to them, but has anyone ever had success with the telling method?
During the dance sequence I worked up enough courage to place my hand upon hers. She turned around and asked "What?". I quickly said "nothing" then angled my body away from hers and put my hands in my lap, sadly defeated.
Now when a guy touches a girl's hand at a movie, isn't it quite obvious he wants to hold it? Or was my move so subtle she genuniely misinterpreted it as an attempt to garner her attention?
Then when I dropped her off tonight, she lingered more than usual, as though she wanted me to try something . . .
I'm thinking about inviting her to lunch and then delivering the following speech:
"You know how in the Goblet of Fire, Ron Weasley is too shy to put the moves on Hermione? Well, when I touched your hand at the theatre I was really wanting to hold it . . . I guess what I'm trying to say is . . . Would you like to be more than just friends?"
I realize you're supposed to show women you're attracted to them, but has anyone ever had success with the telling method?