"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does this sound afc?

adamw5963

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I like talking to you and I don't play games. I think we're really good together. Lets try it if not that's cool and I'm glad we met. :)

Does this sound afc if you haven't talked to a girl in a couple of weeks? We did go on a few dates that went well but wasn't sure if she like me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RedZone

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Yeah it kind of does...Need more information though...Why after a few weeks of not talking are you texting her? Also, I would lose the smiley face.
 

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I quit bc she flaked on me but she did say she wanted to hang again. I got busy because I was moving and didn't have any free time. Plus I live in a small town and don't have many friends so I never knew what to ask her to do.
 

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I like talking to you and I don't play games. I think we're really good together. Lets try it if not that's cool and I'm glad we met.

I puke in my mouth every time I read that.

Try something more like:

Hey! I'm finally done with this moving bs. Come over and entertain me! You can see my new place.
 

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adamw5963 said:
I like talking to you and I don't play games. I think we're really good together. Lets try it if not that's cool and I'm glad we met. :)

Does this sound afc if you haven't talked to a girl in a couple of weeks? We did go on a few dates that went well but wasn't sure if she like me.

What Bible Belt said.

Why can't you just ask her out for some drinks or various entertainment? Why do you have to be all, "I think we're really good together"?? Take it easy.

It's always....always always better if you keep it casual. Nothing dries a girl up faster than seeing a man get all serious and emotional.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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