"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does this seem like a place for legitimate advice/helpful tips?

Brown Spice

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Saw it on other forums and a lot of people have said it is a good blog to read and has some legitimate information on it. I want to see how SoSuave is viewing it.


I recently came across this blog which seems to have decent info on it, can anyone else in here judge and see the quality of advice it has to offer and whether or not I should consider reading it?

http://reesarch.wordpress.com/

I don't know whether or not to take this post seriously though

http://reesarch.wordpress.com/2013/04/25/how-to-attract-blonde-women/
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SpazzAttackk

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I take tips, and I listen to advice but do it my own way.


Its the clowns who come here and ask OMG WHAT EXACTLY SHOULD I SAY IN MY NEXT TEXT? that get trolled. It should be obvious when someone is giving you bad advice. Listen to what people say and learn from it. Be smart and figure **** out yourself and you should be fine.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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