"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I find it really ridiculous of how on TV shows, Articles in magazines and online ALWAYS have the same crap "Why do Men cheat?" "What makes men cheat" "Is he a big cheater?" "How to spot if your boyfriend may be cheating" <~~ Seriously this pissed me off to no end. I just went on Yahoo and the main topic is "What Makes Men Cheat"? WTF!!!!? What about the women who destroy mens lives by cheating? Women who lie to their B/F's about cheating? Women IMO are far worse than men because no one will ever look at a cheating woman the same as a cheating *******,..err... i mean Guy. No Wonder women think they have the right to do whatever they want. The US Media is F**kn ridiculous with this garbage. According to articles about this,... Men are the ones to blame when the girl goes out and F**s another dude because she felt neglected and unloved. BULL~SH!T!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My guess is these are women's magazines. Try looking at the titles. If it says Glamor, Cosmo, Vogue, or Elle, there's your answer right there. You think women want to read about women cheating? Look in the Men's magazines next time.
 

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haha. come on it's hardly surprising. women's media isnt going to be introspective and say hold on, well actually we cause a whole heap of these messes ourselves. that wouldnt sell copy very well. of course its double standards, but again that fact isnt a surprise either.
 

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Lexie said:
My guess is these are women's magazines. Try looking at the titles. If it says Glamor, Cosmo, Vogue, or Elle, there's your answer right there. You think women want to read about women cheating? Look in the Men's magazines next time.
No its not womens magazines, Im pretty sure Cosmo and Glamor is far worse with this topic, Having "Does he really care" article on one page and "1Billion ways to make him say "I do" on the next page. I mean on the media in general, here in NY they had a topic like this on the news, then they have it on sites like Yahoo, MSN and even CNN at one time. Im just saying IMO, women get off wayyyy to easy and are emotional about everything. Take Paul Janka for instance, remember when he was on Dr. Phil and the one girl who told him "Who are you to tell me what to put in my body?" Paul just looked at her like she was a moron. Oh and by the way, Has anyone ever herd of D!ck Masterson? look him up on youtube, that guy takes it to a whole new level lol.
Anyway Men get blamed for so much crap it really is out of control.
 

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I don't watch Dr. Phil.

But I don't think women get off easy here, I think it's just that men don't care as much about it. They find out their girl is cheating, break up with her, and that's it. They move on. But women have to know why he cheated. Am I ugly? Am I not around enough? Should I have cooked more? You know, analyze it to death. So it's just a matter of the media playing to what people (in this case women) want to hear. Can you imagine a bunch of men tuning into a "why your girlfriend strays" topic on msn? I can't.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I simply don't give a **** about those articles or women who either write or follow them; to me that's a person focusing on negativity and hating what they don't want and i'm just starting and making good progress with being positive and focusing on what i want

Women like that won't make me happy and i won't make them either; ie: Let's hangout with some cool chicks instead
 
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