Does this only happen to me?

[Masculinity]

I used to be extremely shy, but I've been doing my homework for the last two years and I've gotten to the point where I can just go up to any girl and tell her to dance with me and charm her after.

The last time I went to the club single, I danced with about seven girls in less than 90 minutes. One of them came up to me while I was dancing alone (hb7), gave me a smile, and pulled me with her to the dance floor as her girls were smiling at me. She turned out to be different than I thought; she was low value AND a smoker, yuck!

I danced with this other hb8 for about ten minutes, took the leadership and five minutes later I had her sitting down on a booth touching and making out with me; I got her number. I danced with another hb8 after her and I also kissed her, but only on the corner of her lips, as she turned her face away; I also got her number. (For some reason, I find the girl who turned me down more high value than the one who made out with me. She is more desirable as she wasn't as easy as the other ones). The other six girls with whom I danced loved my energy and were smiling throughout the dance; I ended the interaction when they bored me. I also went around smacking niice, healthy butts, making small talk with women, and giving little cute compliments in her ear and walk away; I later caught these girls looking at me with the "fvck me" eyes, haha.

Point of the above story: It is obvious I find it easy to get numbers and meeting girls at a night club. There is something about the music and the environment that makes me feel infallible; perhaps it is because I love music and DJing(songs). However, I find it much more difficult to approach a girl at the supermarket, a couple of clothing stores where girls are usually attractive and at school. Does anyone else have this problem? What can I do to improve my day game? Let the constructive criticism come; I am prepared to take it!

 

[Big Overseas 1]

Just take the same club attitude with you out in public with you in the day time. Dial back the physicality and focus just on being playful with girls. Then when you got them smiling or talking a lot, then ask them out or ask for their numbers.

 

[zekko]

Just an observation: From what you're saying, it seems like you rely on the dancing. It gives you an excuse to approach, to kino, and something to do together. Plus a lot of guys don't like to dance so the fact that you do will get you some automatic play.

Obviously in day game there is no dancing. Maybe you find it more difficult to chat them up than you realize. Of course, you can always invite them to go dancing

 

[Masculinity]

Just an observation: From what you're saying, it seems like you rely on the dancing. It gives you an excuse to approach, to kino, and something to do together. Plus a lot of guys don't like to dance so the fact that you do will get you some automatic play.

Obviously in day game there is no dancing. Maybe you find it more difficult to chat them up than you realize. Of course, you can always invite them to go dancing

Haha, you're pretty good Zekko; I do rely on dancing to escalate fast and it works about 80% of the time. About inviting girls to go dancing: I have actually done that before and it worked like a charm. These things are right under my nose, good advice. Thanks!