"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does this mean she wants to be more than friends?

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Ice_Berg_1

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My birthday was this past weekend and one of my female friends made sure she spent as much time as possible with me. My actual birthday was Saturday but she came over and took me out on Friday. Then on Saturday I invited alot of friends both male and female, but this girl stayed glued to my hip and whenever I did leave her to go say what's up to somebody she would be constantly looking for me. She is not usually like that. One of my ex's was there and this girl seemed to get pleasure out of trying to make her jelous. Then there was the gift she gave me. A certificate for a couples massage for us to go to together. Then on Sunday she made reservations at an upscale expensive restauraunt for us to have dinner. I don't know, it seems kind of wierd because for her female friends birthdays all she got them was some cheap ornaments and picture frames. She even missed her best friends birthday because she had to work. But was some able to attend mine without work being an issue. I feel kind of confused because I was under the impression that we were just buddies and I deffinalely did not spend as much time or money on her for her birthday.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanMonk

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You're about to hit gold with this girl and you probably like her from the way you describe her in detail. Here's some guidelines:

1. Friend to Girlfriend can only be done by the girl. It seems as if this girl probably liked you from the start and liked you even more so that you're single.

2. Whatever you are doing right now, keep doing it. Do not suddenly act more friendlier or be more seductive.

3. Despite what other DJs will tell you, such as "make a move" or "go kiss her" , Don't do anything at all, just use your eyes and body language to tell her "Yeah, you're hot" If anything from what you wrote, it seems she's making all the moves already. Let her make those moves.

4. Remember to never mention your ex, unless she asks and keep it very brief/vague about it.

Let me know what happens.
 
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I agree - you are doing something right. So just have fun with it!
 
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