Girlfriend usually will text or message me saying "hey baby..whats goin on" or whatever. Recently i noticed a slight drop of IL on her part i guess and she's also been saying "hey" without adding the cute parts like baby, or cutie or w/e she is use too. This mean anything or not?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Does this mean anything or am i looking too much into it..?
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stop worrying about whether a girl likes u. U need to be up front and bold w/ her. DOn't let her play games in the early stages. Show that u have no tolerance for games, and drop her in a second if she does.
The less u care about if she wants u, the more she WILL want u. U need to just not care about it man. U probably wont take this advice, but after u experience failure a few times, u will change !
The less u care about if she wants u, the more she WILL want u. U need to just not care about it man. U probably wont take this advice, but after u experience failure a few times, u will change !
Alphathree
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Remember, people mirroring is a sign of attraction and respect.
I'll always remember this girl I was with for a while. While we were together, our MSNs went like this:
ME: hey
HER: hey
EVERY TIME it happened this way.
Then one day, this happened:
ME: hey
HER: hi
She broke up with me during that conversation.
Conscious? Maybe not. Indicative of something to come? Maybe.
Use such things as information only.
You're making this into a fear-based question on your part and that's not good for you.
If she wants to leave you, you have to let her go (emotionally). It's the best thing you can do.
If you think that's the direction it's headed (we can't tell you that from one line on her part), you need to ask her about it and/or prepare for it yourself.
I'll always remember this girl I was with for a while. While we were together, our MSNs went like this:
ME: hey
HER: hey
EVERY TIME it happened this way.
Then one day, this happened:
ME: hey
HER: hi
She broke up with me during that conversation.
Conscious? Maybe not. Indicative of something to come? Maybe.
Use such things as information only.
You're making this into a fear-based question on your part and that's not good for you.
If she wants to leave you, you have to let her go (emotionally). It's the best thing you can do.
If you think that's the direction it's headed (we can't tell you that from one line on her part), you need to ask her about it and/or prepare for it yourself.
Giggitty
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Hi everyone. This is my first post.
I suspect she is slowly reeling in her anchor and trying not to let you hear the chains.
Perhaps you could just throw it to her in a preemptive move (i.e. surprise her by requesting more space).
Giggitty
I suspect she is slowly reeling in her anchor and trying not to let you hear the chains.
Perhaps you could just throw it to her in a preemptive move (i.e. surprise her by requesting more space).
Giggitty
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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That's some A+ solid effing advice right there.Originally posted by Giggitty
Perhaps you could just throw it to her in a preemptive move (i.e. surprise her by requesting more space).
Giggitty
pimpinainteasybros
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Shark,
You should be asking yourself why you are noticing something so insignificant like that.
No disrespect but you got to get some more stuff going in your life and you won't care about sh*t like that, and your chick will find you more attractive. Neediness is not attractive, and yes, you sound needy.
GL bro...
You should be asking yourself why you are noticing something so insignificant like that.
No disrespect but you got to get some more stuff going in your life and you won't care about sh*t like that, and your chick will find you more attractive. Neediness is not attractive, and yes, you sound needy.
GL bro...