Girlfriend usually will text or message me saying "hey baby..whats goin on" or whatever. Recently i noticed a slight drop of IL on her part i guess and she's also been saying "hey" without adding the cute parts like baby, or cutie or w/e she is use too. This mean anything or not?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Does this mean anything or am i looking too much into it..?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
stop worrying about whether a girl likes u. U need to be up front and bold w/ her. DOn't let her play games in the early stages. Show that u have no tolerance for games, and drop her in a second if she does.
The less u care about if she wants u, the more she WILL want u. U need to just not care about it man. U probably wont take this advice, but after u experience failure a few times, u will change !
The less u care about if she wants u, the more she WILL want u. U need to just not care about it man. U probably wont take this advice, but after u experience failure a few times, u will change !
Alphathree
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Remember, people mirroring is a sign of attraction and respect.
I'll always remember this girl I was with for a while. While we were together, our MSNs went like this:
ME: hey
HER: hey
EVERY TIME it happened this way.
Then one day, this happened:
ME: hey
HER: hi
She broke up with me during that conversation.
Conscious? Maybe not. Indicative of something to come? Maybe.
Use such things as information only.
You're making this into a fear-based question on your part and that's not good for you.
If she wants to leave you, you have to let her go (emotionally). It's the best thing you can do.
If you think that's the direction it's headed (we can't tell you that from one line on her part), you need to ask her about it and/or prepare for it yourself.
I'll always remember this girl I was with for a while. While we were together, our MSNs went like this:
ME: hey
HER: hey
EVERY TIME it happened this way.
Then one day, this happened:
ME: hey
HER: hi
She broke up with me during that conversation.
Conscious? Maybe not. Indicative of something to come? Maybe.
Use such things as information only.
You're making this into a fear-based question on your part and that's not good for you.
If she wants to leave you, you have to let her go (emotionally). It's the best thing you can do.
If you think that's the direction it's headed (we can't tell you that from one line on her part), you need to ask her about it and/or prepare for it yourself.
Giggitty
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Hi everyone. This is my first post.
I suspect she is slowly reeling in her anchor and trying not to let you hear the chains.
Perhaps you could just throw it to her in a preemptive move (i.e. surprise her by requesting more space).
Giggitty
I suspect she is slowly reeling in her anchor and trying not to let you hear the chains.
Perhaps you could just throw it to her in a preemptive move (i.e. surprise her by requesting more space).
Giggitty
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Alphathree
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That's some A+ solid effing advice right there.Originally posted by Giggitty
Perhaps you could just throw it to her in a preemptive move (i.e. surprise her by requesting more space).
Giggitty
pimpinainteasybros
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Shark,
You should be asking yourself why you are noticing something so insignificant like that.
No disrespect but you got to get some more stuff going in your life and you won't care about sh*t like that, and your chick will find you more attractive. Neediness is not attractive, and yes, you sound needy.
GL bro...
You should be asking yourself why you are noticing something so insignificant like that.
No disrespect but you got to get some more stuff going in your life and you won't care about sh*t like that, and your chick will find you more attractive. Neediness is not attractive, and yes, you sound needy.
GL bro...