"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does this make me racist, or is it normal?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can just as easily say you're dreamx. You seem to type in a simular fashion. Besides, what if I was Viper? If it means THAT much to you, or anyone here, you guys honestly have no room to be giving anyone advice. Anyone here who has a life wouldn't really care. One things for sure, getting banned from Sosuave isn't the end of the world, nor does it stop me from reading the advice here, and improving. And if you think I'm a troll, as always, you are wrong, and as always, you're not very bright. I'm just glad that after two years, and thousands of topics, I'm finally getting somewhere.
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at least you sound more mature now, viper. you used to sound more like a b1tch in your posts. pfft i dont care that much as long as you don't make stupids posts again.
 
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Man, you asked to be banned, now you've come back. Are there no depths to your Idiocy?

Seriously, we've all tried to help you, you don't listen. So just go away, no-one cares about you, no-one's interested in you. You're not even entertaining anymore. Your whole "reply to my thread and i'll cry at you" act is jaded, and to be frank, you're wasting your time with girls.
 
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Man, you asked to be banned, now you've come back. Are there no depths to your Idiocy?

Seriously, we've all tried to help you, you don't listen. So just go away, no-one cares about you, no-one's interested in you. You're not even entertaining anymore. Your whole "reply to my thread and i'll cry at you" act is jaded, and to be frank, you're wasting your time with girls.
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Dude, you're wrong on so many levels, that I'm not even going to bother explaining myself.
 
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That repost is soooo inane and retarded! "I'm not going to bother replying, but wait, I will." Why not just write "uhhhhhh I'm dumb?"

Hey, kid I'll make no "mistake" you don't care. Kinda begs the question....why are you here? You're hardly endearing yourself to anyone and/or getting better at life.
Quite the opposite with girls huh? I've just been watching Dane Cook, and thats the funniest thing I've heard all night. Seriously, you're about as useful with women as a pair of rubber lips on a woodpecker. Wait, replace "with women with "at life".

Oh my bad, you went to band camp. Life is looking good for you.

BTW: Nice edit on your post. Now you just look "dumb" as opposed to "wow, this guy's gonna trip over his IQ"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Okay, dude, you win, whatever, I've got better things to do then to argue with someone over nothing.
 
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'Course you have mate. Either that or this a lame attempt to make it seem like you have a life.
 
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Whatever you say man.

There's really no point in arguing, especially when it's not going anywhere. This is basically the pattern of the arguing:
[Wescott flames Viper, says something about Viper that's not true]
[Viper defends himself]
[Wescott flames Viper again, continuing to say stuff that's not true about Viper]
[Viper defends himself]
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And if we continue arguing, that's probably all that will continue to happen. No one is going to win, it'll just be an endless argument. So, you know what I say? Let's call it truce man.
 
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Guys just stop. This is retarded. We all already no Viper has nothing good going for himself. Why reinforce that to him? There's no point in putting him down, as long as he doesn't say anything stupid anymore.



Btw BVBIDD or whatever your name is, I don't care what you think. If you want to find out if I'm DREAMX please message AC, Vincent or someone else. So please CALM YOUR ****.
 
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Guys just stop. This is retarded. We all already no Viper has nothing good going for himself. Why reinforce that to him? There's no point in putting him down, as long as he doesn't say anything stupid anymore.



Btw BVBIDD or whatever your name is, I don't care what you think. If you want to find out if I'm DREAMX please message AC, Vincent or someone else. So please CALM YOUR ****.
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Er... I got mad at you last time, but I edited this when I realized that your opinion doesn't matter. And that's all it is, opinion(Based on absolutely nothing, might I add), I myself can confirm that that "Viper has nothing going for him" stuff is BS, and I don't care what you guys think, cause you don't f*cking know me(No matter how much you want to believe you do).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Er... I got mad at you last time, but I edited this when I realized that your opinion doesn't matter. And that's all it is, opinion(Based on absolutely nothing, might I add), I myself can confirm that that "Viper has nothing going for him" stuff is BS, and I don't care what you guys think, cause you don't f*cking know me(No matter how much you want to believe you do).
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This why people don't like you because someone like me tries to get them to stop bashing on you, and you throw right back at me. Some people might like you if you weren't a douche to everyone.
 
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This why people don't like you because someone like me tries to get them to stop bashing on you, and you throw right back at me. Some people might like you if you weren't a douche to everyone.
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Well hey, I just can't stand when people talk about something they don't know. If you just left that "Viper has nothing going for him" comment out, I wouldn't have gotten p*ssed. Especially when you say it as if it's a fact or something(Even though I've mentioned that I play instruments, and sports in several of my threads). And you're right, I'm a douche when I'm angry, but you have to say something pretty stupid/ignorant to make me angry. Generally, I'm a nice guy. Anyway, since you guys have to act like assh*les every time I ask a simple question, you probably won't be seeing me again(whether on this account, or another), until I actually have something to contribute(For instance, a field report).
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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