Does this EVER happen?

[ICaughtFire]

Do girls hate u for playing too much games?

i noe this girl and i basically tease n neg hit her a lot sure she become attracted 2 my "jerkiness" n then started playing games wif me. she always try 2 make me jealous like hugging other guys right in front of me, and other downright off the edge jealousy acts she was trying very hard..........

last sat we hung out with some of her friends and we tease eachother and neg hit eachother more in the end i couldn't go on the same bus as her and u can see that disappointed look on her face, i thought that hanging out was fine

then the next day she block and delete me from msn and said i was very mean to her and she is now very pissed, and she would never talk to me again on msn

i was like wtf? i cant find any good reason for this, the ony one i can think of is that she's pissed that im still teasing and neg hitting her although she tries so hard etc she wants me to pursue her and say how much i like her blah..........

is this a possibility?

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

You probably took it overboard. One or two negs usually get the job done with good results.

If you overuse this technique, much like any other technique, it will not work and may have the adverse effects. My guess is you were negging her without using ****y and funny (or you think were but you werent really funny), and you did it too much, and thus it backfired.

 

[ICaughtFire]

what do i do now to fix the situation

does apolozing to her in person works?

or i confess to her i do actualy like her

but both ways seems afc

 

[ICaughtFire]

come on ppl help a poor lil man here............

 

[Lost In the Seas]

maybe u can just tell her that u like her

 

[ICaughtFire]

but that's too afc though right?

 

[spider_007]

neg hits are only to bring her down to your level. you don't do it all the time. When she is walking down the road and swinging that bootey with her nose high in the air, that's when you neg. hit her. Just to show that you see through her 2 tons of makeup and you won't take any **** from her. YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE YOU DON'T CROSS THE LINE. LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T KNOW WHEN TO STOP. When she is down to your level, that's when you turn on the "funny/sarcastic" kind of teasing.

Don't bother contacting or apoligizing. it won't do sh1t. just turn a down a notch when you run into her again.

 

[ICaughtFire]

ya now i learn what i did wrong

but what i need now is solutions

 

[arutha]

Let her be unhappy, find others, have fun and move on with your life. If she is half reasonable, she will get over it and come back to you. If not, who cares? You have others.

 

[BackToTheMack]

Originally posted by spider_007
neg hits are only to bring her down to your level. you don't do it all the time. When she is walking down the road and swinging that bootey with her nose high in the air, that's when you neg. hit her. Just to show that you see through her 2 tons of makeup and you won't take any **** from her. YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE YOU DON'T CROSS THE LINE. LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T KNOW WHEN TO STOP. When she is down to your level, that's when you turn on the "funny/sarcastic" kind of teasing.

Don't bother contacting or apoligizing. it won't do sh1t. just turn a down a notch when you run into her again.

"donw to your level" that sounds demeaning to yourself.

 

[rockstar88]

how old are you. girls that are 12 are weird and there not going to respond to the same **** as girls in college or older. if you have to ride a bus to get around you should probably be more conserned with playing tag or back yard football and not with chasing girls that havent had there first period. girls at that age dont know how to play games yet or what they want. it's all meaningless and dont waste your time. building forts are way better anyway