"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does this count as a flake?

Squidward

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Too cut it short, me and this girl had plans to go out this Friday, but she just rang me and said would we move it too Saturday. I have yet to know the reason, until I ring her back since I'm quite busy at the moment. Should I just call the whole thing off or wait untill I know what the reason was?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Daddy The Pimp

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This is posted in wrong forum . It should have been on DJ Discussions .This is only for tips .

Fvck " FLAKE " and all that PU terminology . Give her another chance , go out with her and have fun . Dont overanalyze and try to have fun . If my intention would be just to fvck her , i wouldnt give a fvck about her reason . I would just go out with her , do my thing .

But if you want to have relationship with her , you gotta set some limits and a strong frame .
 

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Good advice mate, I'll take note of it. What if this situation happened in a relationship? Would your advice be the same? Curious.

Thanks!
 
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