"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does this count as a flake?

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Squidward

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Too cut it short, me and this girl had plans to go out this Friday, but she just rang me and said would we move it too Saturday. I have yet to know the reason, until I ring her back since I'm quite busy at the moment. Should I just call the whole thing off or wait untill I know what the reason was?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Daddy The Pimp

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This is posted in wrong forum . It should have been on DJ Discussions .This is only for tips .

Fvck " FLAKE " and all that PU terminology . Give her another chance , go out with her and have fun . Dont overanalyze and try to have fun . If my intention would be just to fvck her , i wouldnt give a fvck about her reason . I would just go out with her , do my thing .

But if you want to have relationship with her , you gotta set some limits and a strong frame .
 
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Good advice mate, I'll take note of it. What if this situation happened in a relationship? Would your advice be the same? Curious.

Thanks!
 
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