"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does the Kiss Close Come Straight After the SOI?

AbsolutBeirut

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Credit to Charm for this SOI:

"You know, not only are you sexy, but you're really easy to communicate with. I see us on a level where we can really get through to eachother. Do you feel that?"

OK, so after that she gives her opinion. If its positive, is it smooth to execute Mystery's kiss test?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Charm

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If you get very positive feedback, a kiss close is completely appropriate! You have to listen and read body language and take a risk
 
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