"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Does the good physique help us to attract women?

d!ckmojo

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In my life, I've been skinny, and I've been a litte bit fat, and I've been normal body size. For a very very short period of my life, 2 years ago, I was truly muscular. And let me tell you, during that period of my life (which only lasted about 3 months) was the only period in my life when girls would literally throw themselves at me, pvssy first. I'd go to clubs and women would just str8 grope me and grind my c0ck and try to get me to fvck them in the toilets. Or if they had a little more class, they would tell their friend to come up to me and then their friend would be like "Hey will you plz hook up with my friend?" etc.

There was no comparison, and it just doesn't happen to me now, nor did it ever happen to me before then, only during that short 3 month period when I was muscular looking. Damn I wish I could get back to that physique, Oh man I curse my laziness :G
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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evansblue said:
Almost all of the guys I know that have a ripped physique are terrible with women. I know one bodybuilder who enters in local competitions all the time and usually wins, yet he doesn't pull in hotties. He's one of the most insecure people I know. Another guy I went to high school with. He was real skinny, then starting going to the gym for 3 years straight. He's got a nice 6 pack, decent sized arms, etc. His skills are the same as they were before he started lifting.

The one thing that those two guys have in common, along with pretty much every other guy that lives in the gym, is that they're incredibly insecure and are trying to compensate. They're in the same situation as the guys in this forum that frequent the gym. Either they're extremely skinny, short, or ignored by girls in their life. The first thing they think is "I gotta get ripped." They can't even open their mouths to talk to a girl, yet they think pumping iron is going to solve their problems... and of course it doesn't.

90% of the hot girls I see are with skinny guys that have a good-looking face.
Your arguement is flawed into what you see and not what is the norm.

You don't ever do anything for anyone but YOURSELF.

As a gymnast I've been so called "inshape" nearly my entire life and yes you do get a huge amount of women that will check you out BUT if you don't go up to them and talk to them and chat them up you will NOT get the girls.

Looking good makes getting the girls easier but you still have to have actually game to get the girls.

Just read the bible its already there.
 

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Your charming personality and bulletproof Game doesn't make you look any better when your shirt comes off.
 

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That only applies if you're fat. A skinny good-looking guy will make the panties drop.
 

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The one thing that those two guys have in common, along with pretty much every other guy that lives in the gym, is that they're incredibly insecure and are trying to compensate. They're in the same situation as the guys in this forum that frequent the gym. Either they're extremely skinny, short, or ignored by girls in their life. The first thing they think is "I gotta get ripped." They can't even open their mouths to talk to a girl, yet they think pumping iron is going to solve their problems... and of course it doesn't.

90% of the hot girls I see are with skinny guys that have a good-looking face.
or they're gay... have a couple gay friends who are obsessed with their bodies, big muther fvckers you would not want to mess with. They say the majority of guys that are in the gyms have a tendency to lean towards men, especially those dudes who buy muscle magazines. I hate to think that's true because I'm starting to really get in shape myself...hahah

But I can definitely see where they are coming from...a lot of the guys I see lifting free weights are staring at themselves in the mirrors and I knew a guy couple years back who was terrified of 'talking to tha ladies' yet he was the most ripped guy I'd had ever seen... he would give Schwarzenegger a run for his money. He did 5 martial arts, was a full-time instructor, owned a nice house, car, knew every supplement to take and which machine went with what muscle group. I don't think he had/has ever actually kissed a girl. He's huge though.

I would say physique is great, absolutely...but only after your game is tight and you don't need the muscles.. Just like in nightclubs, the guy who can dance attracts the women but the guy who's got tight game goes home with them... I know first hand, I was the guy who could dance. Had the hottest women in the nightclub coming up to me, yet I didn't know what the hell to do with them. :eek:

Certainly won't hurt to put on some bulk just don't go nuts with it. If your life becomes about Whey supplements, testosterone boosters and insane diets (everyone in the health section) you are trying TOO HARD and lacking in game.

Just like in the clubs, if you've got both tight GAME and wicked MOVES, you are unstoppable.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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