"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Leuven

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Hi,

To answer first my own question, it has, but not in the way I had hoped for.

It's about a year ago I discovered this site. Before that, a friend of mine had given me a book of seduction ( tranceguide, how to lay girls )

There are many things I've learned ( the book, dj bible, bootcamp and this forum ). I've tried also several things on the field. But until now the succes rate hasn't gone through the roof as I hoped or expected.

Things I've learned on the site and practice are that I've less problems with talking to girls, I feel better about myself than before ( which I find important )
I recently changed work ( again ). Every collegue thinks I can get any woman I want. Nobody of my not too close friends would believe that I never had a girlfriend.

Strange thing is that every friend tells me that I have much succes with girls, and that I'm very good with them. So is my question?
Why keep they telling me something like that. I don't have succes, girls won't come over and talk to me, oke if I go over and talk too them, they listen and chat back.
Does they say that cheer me up? Is it just because I'm their friend that they say something like that ( my friends )? Or is it possible that I'm so blind I've missed something?

Sincerly


Sorry for the bad English, but I'm native Dutch speaking and working in a single French environment
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonJuanByNature

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I dont understand what are you saying? are you saying you are better at talking to girls and your more confident but you dont have improved success? or are you saying you never had a girlfriend? What? what exactly are you asking man.are you upset they wont come up and talk to you?.. DONT EDIT>. just reply to my comment to clear somethings up...
 
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Leuven

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I meant that my confidence has grown. Confidence to talk to people in general, girls in particular. But nomatter how much effort I put into my actions with girls, I still don't get anywhere. They talk nicely back, but at the end it's always the same outcome ... girl has to leave or conversation ended.

It's true I never had a girlfriend, but that I only said because everyone of my friends thinks I have much succes, but that's absolutely not true, or did I miss something big
 
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blinkwatt

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Leuven said:
I meant that my confidence has grown. Confidence to talk to people in general, girls in particular. But nomatter how much effort I put into my actions with girls, I still don't get anywhere. They talk nicely back, but at the end it's always the same outcome ... girl has to leave or conversation ended.
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Why dont you keep the conversation short and leave on them?
 
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