"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does the ab wheel work?

nvictor

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Has anyone tried the ab wheel? Does it work?

I have started a routine to get firm abs (combined with 1.5 mile running before each session. at least two session everyday). I'm getting some results, but that's because I have been training long before and stopped at some point.

A friend just gave me this kind of ab wheel. I have tried it and, well, I couldn't do more than 5 stretches. And what's more is that I'm not sure that it is really working my abs (you know you kind of feel your abs with some exercises)

Can someone confirm?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BMX

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Yes it does work my abs, and I've also felt it working my tri's, lats and pecs. It's challenging but I worked up to 5 sets of 15. Today I did 4x10 with 25 lbs on my back. Even though it's a good compound exercise, it still works my abs plenty. Watch and read some info here: http://www.rosstraining.com/articles/wheel.html
 

Derek Flint

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Careful, those things can do a number on your elbows, particularly your Ulnar nerve.
 

sam3083

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Better than situps and other crunch variations that do a number on your back/spine.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Throttle

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also, be careful not to judge the effectiveness of a workout from the "burn"
 
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