El Payaso
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Notice the man in this short video. http://youtu.be/2tpNXHUy_zE
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Does society condition us to be white knights?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
VikingKing
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Yes, and you know this. This is why I don't feel bad when women get hit or raped. There are to many dudes out there who care way to much about some ho that they are not even getting pvssy from.
A lot of women get abused by men who they already know are abusive, they stay with the men, and act in a way that triggers him to be abusive. So #your body, your rights, your problem.
Women who stay with abusive men want to be abused, otherwise they would leave right away. At no point she we take into account how she may feel, this or that. They don't do that for men, they wont do that for you. If we had true equality women would be fvcked.
A lot of women get abused by men who they already know are abusive, they stay with the men, and act in a way that triggers him to be abusive. So #your body, your rights, your problem.
Women who stay with abusive men want to be abused, otherwise they would leave right away. At no point she we take into account how she may feel, this or that. They don't do that for men, they wont do that for you. If we had true equality women would be fvcked.
zekko
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The reason people don't rush in and help the guy is because they are thinking "What kind of a pathetic pvssy is this guy to let himself get beat on and abused by a woman like this"? And I hate to say it, but they are right.
The reason people step in when the man abuses the woman is because she is at an obvious physical disadvantage.
Mind you, I'm not excusing female on male violence. But in this video, that guy should be able to take care of himself. He's clearly bigger and stronger than the woman. No one likes a wimp.
The reason people step in when the man abuses the woman is because she is at an obvious physical disadvantage.
Mind you, I'm not excusing female on male violence. But in this video, that guy should be able to take care of himself. He's clearly bigger and stronger than the woman. No one likes a wimp.
Tictac
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The difference between you and a lab rat is that, after you reach a certain age, you decide what 'conditioning' you live with.
Skyline
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"Men's greatest weakness is his façade of strength whilst women's greatest strength is her façade of weakness."zekko said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
All I know is that women have no problem financially or otherwise leaving boring and/or beta boyfriends and husbands, so this myth that they can't leave their abusers is just eyerolling, especially when the majority of domestic violence is 2-way. http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htmVikingKing said:
Women are violent people. Even elderly women are violent towards other elderly. http://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/18/opinion/sunday/mean-girls-in-the-retirement-home.html?_r=5
So yes, society conditions us to be white knights by constantly just straight up lying to us about the conditions out there. Women are constantly perpetrators in the same things that men are, but only the male crimes are highlighted or even acknowledged, which creates an illusion that women need protected instead of handcuffed.
stevo
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Yes.
Just yesterday on TV, they were talking about a run away couple on a bike (they probably stole the bike or did something illegal) but guess who's picture was posted up?
Yup, the dude. ONLY THE DUDE.
Indirectly excusing the lady of every guilt and making the man come off as the sole conspirator.
After you become a DJ, little sheet like that starts to stand out to you and when you talk about it, people around you think you've turned into a sadist but it really is sad.
There are very small cases of domestic violence that wasn't generated by the woman. They use their mouth and attitude to push a man to a point of "fcuk all this sheet".
Just yesterday on TV, they were talking about a run away couple on a bike (they probably stole the bike or did something illegal) but guess who's picture was posted up?
Yup, the dude. ONLY THE DUDE.
Indirectly excusing the lady of every guilt and making the man come off as the sole conspirator.
After you become a DJ, little sheet like that starts to stand out to you and when you talk about it, people around you think you've turned into a sadist but it really is sad.
There are very small cases of domestic violence that wasn't generated by the woman. They use their mouth and attitude to push a man to a point of "fcuk all this sheet".
Between_The_Lines
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Can't change a tiger's stripes. AWALT.
The blame falls entirely on men's shoulders. MEN have stood up to far more (openly) oppressive movements (Nazism, Communism etc.), and perhaps therein lies the crux of the matter - not human organisms with an organ called the penis dangling between their legs, but MEN, MEN decided "enough of this sh1t" and set out to fight back, risking life and limb in the process. "Jesus Christ, men seriously were a bunch of beta fagg0t-@ss pvssies in those days", a fledgling 19 year old might say decades from now after listening to an hour or two of sad tales told to him by his grandfather, who lived amongst this swarm of cuckolds. The evidence is nauseatingly overwhelming at this point. I have mixed views about RSD these days, but it's at least encouraging to see the droves of guys curious to explore a strategy different from the one society has imposed on them from an early age. If we get a few weirdos who now do pushups in the middle of a club and drive "negging" to an annoyingly absurd pitch as a result - oh well. Can't win them all. At least the beginning of a long stretch of experimentation and countless trials & errors is underway with the aim of shaking up this pervasive white knight fagg0try that's severely infected society.
It's women who have long been guilty of inverting the expression "better alone than in bad company" into "better in bad company than alone", but what do you know? Now we have flocks of castrated men subscribing to this perverse worldview. We have guys believing that they are "lucky" to have certain girls in their lives, practically thanking the heavens with a level of gratitude on par with what a blind person would experience if their sight was somehow magically restored. Men don't want to be MEN anymore. What once was considered to be "a man", society now tries to teach as being synonymous with being an "@sshole", "misogynist", and if that doesn't work, they flood them with the fear of spending their rest of their days alone. "Better in bad company than being alone"...
Blaming women en masse won't get men anywhere though - won't change a damn thing. On a micro scale, how effective is it to tell your girl that she can't text any one of her seven orbiters any longer? ...unless you spell out the consequence that follows from her continuation of such behavior - that is, the termination of "us". No fighting, no little "talks", no couple's therapy - it all comes to an end - poof! - just like that. It's not fire that wins this kind of war, it's coldness, deprivation, starvation. Of what? Attention, time, resources. But men today are afraid to go there, because dying alone, simply being alone, scares the living sh1t out of them. This enormous sh1t test that is feminism will continue to bring guys to their knees because they're too frightened to walk the fvck away. And how could they? In their eyes, women ought to be counted as the Eighth Wonder of the World.
Society conditioning us to be white knights is only made possible because it very cleverly, insidiously, surreptitiously, and efficaciously conditions us to be fearful.
The blame falls entirely on men's shoulders. MEN have stood up to far more (openly) oppressive movements (Nazism, Communism etc.), and perhaps therein lies the crux of the matter - not human organisms with an organ called the penis dangling between their legs, but MEN, MEN decided "enough of this sh1t" and set out to fight back, risking life and limb in the process. "Jesus Christ, men seriously were a bunch of beta fagg0t-@ss pvssies in those days", a fledgling 19 year old might say decades from now after listening to an hour or two of sad tales told to him by his grandfather, who lived amongst this swarm of cuckolds. The evidence is nauseatingly overwhelming at this point. I have mixed views about RSD these days, but it's at least encouraging to see the droves of guys curious to explore a strategy different from the one society has imposed on them from an early age. If we get a few weirdos who now do pushups in the middle of a club and drive "negging" to an annoyingly absurd pitch as a result - oh well. Can't win them all. At least the beginning of a long stretch of experimentation and countless trials & errors is underway with the aim of shaking up this pervasive white knight fagg0try that's severely infected society.
It's women who have long been guilty of inverting the expression "better alone than in bad company" into "better in bad company than alone", but what do you know? Now we have flocks of castrated men subscribing to this perverse worldview. We have guys believing that they are "lucky" to have certain girls in their lives, practically thanking the heavens with a level of gratitude on par with what a blind person would experience if their sight was somehow magically restored. Men don't want to be MEN anymore. What once was considered to be "a man", society now tries to teach as being synonymous with being an "@sshole", "misogynist", and if that doesn't work, they flood them with the fear of spending their rest of their days alone. "Better in bad company than being alone"...
Blaming women en masse won't get men anywhere though - won't change a damn thing. On a micro scale, how effective is it to tell your girl that she can't text any one of her seven orbiters any longer? ...unless you spell out the consequence that follows from her continuation of such behavior - that is, the termination of "us". No fighting, no little "talks", no couple's therapy - it all comes to an end - poof! - just like that. It's not fire that wins this kind of war, it's coldness, deprivation, starvation. Of what? Attention, time, resources. But men today are afraid to go there, because dying alone, simply being alone, scares the living sh1t out of them. This enormous sh1t test that is feminism will continue to bring guys to their knees because they're too frightened to walk the fvck away. And how could they? In their eyes, women ought to be counted as the Eighth Wonder of the World.
Society conditioning us to be white knights is only made possible because it very cleverly, insidiously, surreptitiously, and efficaciously conditions us to be fearful.