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Does size matter to girls?

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My EX one told me that my size is small ( which is a 7) .
Does size matter to girls? Iam not small right?
 

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Yeeeeaaah that is kinda small, I was not expecting you to say anything below 10 or 11 inches.......
 

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sigh...no thats not small....thats average...

Why guys think they have to have a 12 inch c*ck to please a girl I have no idea... I mean really its like a chick having triple F boobs. Its just going to waste....;)
 

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well iam not gay but i seen pics of men you know what and some are fat and thick.:(
 

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Originally posted by texasdude79
well iam not gay but i seen pics of men you know what and some are fat and thick.:(
They select pr0nstars because of such *cough* 'special qualities'...

I don't see anything wrong with a size 7 (in an entire non gay kind of way, of course).
 
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7 inches is NOT small...it's average...meaning that's about the same size everyone else is. The only time women even notice or think about size is if it's unusually small or unusually large. Very small can affect how enjoyable sex is and very large tends to hurt.

Smaller guys have one advantage over larger guys, though...if you're a bit small you'll have a better chance of convincing a woman to try anal with you. If you're big, she's unlikely to ever agree to that. Just an observation...
 

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great things come in small packages.. lol
nuff said
I've never had a single complaint. If anything, some of my ex's have had some miscomfort because Mr. Wiggles keeps hitting their cervix - which means one of two things - Either I'm too large or their phaginas are too small. Or perhaps that's actually normal although I've noticed it can get painful to them. Been with quite a few women and I'm proud to say that at 6.5 " they've always had a big smile lol
 

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okay, first, 5.5 - 6.25 is average. Second, how are you measuring? All of the national averages were taken when the man was fully erect, standing up, on the top of the penis with the ruler pressed into his pelvis.

Third, so long as your penis is normal looking and adequately sized (average) and you know how to use it (tease the **** out of her), there should be no problems. Besides, why listen to what your ex says? Was she complaining when you were with her?

Go watch some lesbian porn, and note the size of some of the dildos they use. I agree that some are massive, but a lot of them are average, or below average size.


go here: www.cheekycherry.com Go to the forums, everything you ever wanted to know about size!
 

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size?

Hey,

Size has nothing to do with it.

Try a side position where you can work a n*pple, the cl*toris and the 'G' spot all at the same time. You got it made!!!!

Also, during oral sex use a finger to work the 'G' spot at the same time.

cave dweller
 

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7 inches is above average

this is the internet so i guess that is why peopel are syaing it is only average:rolleyes:
 

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Debate about penis size is stupid. As long as you can reach her pleasure spots, it does not matter at all how big it is. This is just another way insecure and immature men try to feel better about themselves (i.e. "My **** is bigger than yours").
 

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Also a lot of women just have no idea how to measure with the "eyeballing" method and tend to over-estimate the size of guys they've been with. So a guy who actually measures 6.5 will be an 8 to the girl.

In the case of the OP, she was just being a b!tch. Even if you were small (which you aren't if you are 7), that is a really lame thing for her to say, meaning it was meant to hurt your feelings/ego. Tell her that her p*ssy tasted like rotten fish that has been peed on and see how she likes it.
 

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The average-size is about 5.5 or so.

Clearly, someone is exaggerating.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mine is also about 7 and I have never had any complaints other than it is a little thicker than average so some tight women may encounter some pain.

Also my c0ck tends to tilt upwards when fully erect which is an added bonus for women as it rubs against the **** during intercourse.
 

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she's not calling u small b/c of your length. In fact, you are above average in length. 7 is not average, 7 is big. She's probably commenting about your girth.

Girth is much more important to girls than length. They want to feel filled up.
 

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This reminds me of the story about the woman that asked her lover why was his organ so small; he replied "I didn't know that I was playing in a cathedral." ;)
 

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I wonder if the woman's size also has something to do with it?
it seems like a small petite sized woman would tend to have shallower tighter vaginas? than a larger taller woman?

:confused:
 

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Dude doesn't sound like I'm all that much bigger than you and I get complaints (I hear back from their girlfriends) about hurting girls for the first few times. They are sore and etc afterwards and sometimes entry is hard.

7 and a good girth may be close to ideal unless you like big girls and/or sluts !

Cheers

Ps. Poloblue - the girl's size definately matters. Tiny asian girls have tiny asian pussies.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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