"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does she want to get fudged ? ( Part 2 )

bongo

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Hello brothers ,

For some background info, I refer you to this thread : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178061

Long story short : HB7 ( Julia ) showed interest, told my sister about it ( She's the sister of my sister's boyfriend ) , she has a "boyfriend", probably wants to get fuvcked by me.

We talked on MSN after, teased her a little, light convo, told her I had plans to go swimming Sunday, and told her she could accompany me if she wanted. She agreed, I get her number too.
( I must've been doing pretty good untill then, for when I told her I g2g , she was like "Noooo whyyy ??" ).

Sunday arrives. I call her on my way to the beach asking her what she's doing, and that I'm going right now. Julia tells me she's feeling sick, but I can come over to her house for a bit. Fuvck it, why not ?

I arrive at her house, her whole family is sitting outside. I get out of the car, introduce myself, then her brother shows up. I greet him, we go inside, he tells me Julia is getting ready. We chill in his room, listen to music.

Julia is ready to go now. I can indeed hear her voice is somewhat nasal, like a mild flu. She doesn't want to go swimming perse, but offers to drive around and go chill somewhere. Ok let's go I say.

I am not the greatest conversationalist, but I try. This girl likes to talk, so there weren't awkward silences in the car. Bob Marley tunes playing in the background.

I decide to go to the beach and chill for a bit there. We sit down, and talk. I felt like I wasn't aggressive enough, we didn't kiss or anything like that. ( Didn't feel the vibe was just right yet for a Kiss. )
But I did some Kino, and for example complimented her smell and asked what perfume she was wearing. So there was some flirting. But no real escalation.

I had some sh!t to do after, so we go get a drink and I drive her back home. She tells me she had fun, and to let her know when I arrive home well.

I went to do my business and later that night texted her : Just got home. I had an interesting day with you today Julia. Hope you feel better soon sexy, talk later.

Haven't called or contacted her since. I feel as if I already fuvcked it up, and I don't know how to proceed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tesl

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Wait a few days, take her out again, escalate properly this time, then enjoy.
 

Thatsalotoffish

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Shouldnt have givin that last text my opinion, I never text girls after a night with them. You really gained nothing from sending that text imo )
 

Cry For Love

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Sorry bro. u blew ur chance with the last text. better next her and do the next one fvkin properly. that means read up on theory, mystery method stages, time warping techniques, so you wont be clueless. THis kind of all in approach your style is unproductive
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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