“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Does She Want To Be A Friend?

JPC3

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I MET THIS VERY HOT GIRL. THROUGH MY UNCLE. SHE IS FROM SPAIN AND ME TOO AND WE HAVE THE SAME BACKROUND. I HAVE BEEN ON TWO DATES WITH HER AND IT GOES GREAT. WE TALK FOR HOURS. SHE OVED HERE ABOUT 3 MONTHS AGO AND LIVES WITH HER BROTHER. BUT EVERYTIME WE TALK SHE MENTIONS THAT SHE LIKES BE SINLGE, I DO TO BUT I CAN ALREADY SEE THAT SHE IS A WONDERFUL PERSON. PEOPLE IN SPAIN, DONT DATE ALOT THET ARE USUALLY IN LONG RELATIONSHIPS. SHE JUST GOT OUT OF A 3 YEAR ONE THE GUY WAS A JERK. VERY JEALOUS SHE SAID. I GUESS I CAN SEE ALREADY THAT SHE IS GREAT PERSON, BUT SHE SAYS SHE LIKES TO BE SINGLE. SHOULD I TAKE THAT SHE WANTS TO STAY FRIENDS? SHE TELLS ME IM SUCH A SWEET AND CUTE GUY, SHE TALKS TO ME ALL NIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING AND CANT BELIEVE THAT SHE TALKS TO ME LIKE THIS. SHE SAID SHE HAS NEVER TALKED TO ANY GUY LIKE THIS BEFORE.
 

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are you getting any play from this biatch? if not, you might already be in the freinds zone, my friend. tuff luck, the only way to find out is to make a move on her.
 

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I HAVE NOT MOVED ON HER YET. WHEN WE GOT OUT SHE HAS NO PROBLEM BEING CLOSE TO ME. SHE EVEN ASKED ME WHEN WA THE LAST TIME I HAVE DATED A GIRL AND BEEN WITH A GIRL.
 

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Originally posted by JPC3
SHE TELLS ME IM SUCH A SWEET AND CUTE GUY, SHE TALKS TO ME ALL NIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING AND CANT BELIEVE THAT SHE TALKS TO ME LIKE THIS. SHE SAID SHE HAS NEVER TALKED TO ANY GUY LIKE THIS BEFORE.
Read: You are her AFC b*tch that she uses as an emotional tampon.

Quit trying to a be a captain save-a-hoe and go pick up other chicks. Once you've FTOW then maybe you can THINK about trying to win this one over.
 

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And go easy on the caps.

My gut feeling is that you've already lost. But what the heck, make the move anyway.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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*Shotgun sound* You aint coming back from the FRIENDZONE. Its like the river of Styx and you already payed the ferry man ... BUH-BYE.
 

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Originally posted by JPC3
SHOULD I TAKE THAT SHE WANTS TO STAY FRIENDS? SHE TELLS ME IM SUCH A SWEET AND CUTE GUY, SHE TALKS TO ME ALL NIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING AND CANT BELIEVE THAT SHE TALKS TO ME LIKE THIS. SHE SAID SHE HAS NEVER TALKED TO ANY GUY LIKE THIS BEFORE.
I really hope you like talking, because pretty soon that is all she is going to ever give you. Then yes, she will only want to stay friends. If you want to get with this girl sometime before 2015, then you will need to start turning the heat up a little. Whatever first impression she had about you is starting to dissolve into a comfortable friendliness. When you are doing all this talking, look at the situation and think to yourself "Where is this getting me?"

Do not try to resolve all her issues, like her harping on about her jerk ex-bf... this will get you absolutely nowhere.

Nowhere does the phrase "Talk is cheap" apply more...
 
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Oh rats, did you say she called you "SWEET" Thats the nail that closed your coffin - and you ain't getting out of it.

Of course she talks to you like she has to no other guy - thats because they are trying to pursue her romantically and you are the only guy that hasn't. Bad move on tour part.

Didn't the Don Juan Legend originate in Spain?
 
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