"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does she want reassurance? She wants to travel abroad.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sodbuster

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I'd play it cool and start looking for better. NOTHING happened when she was drunk and sleeping with another guy? Sorry, not likely-unless she's a virgin[maybe then]. Keep her around as a come dumpster, but I wouldn't believe her line
 

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She ended up sleeping on a bed with another guy? not cool man whether it's real or not. I think the red flag is there. Whether you choose to ignore it or not is up to you.
 

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Not acceptable. Sounds like a whole range of sh1t tests being thrown at you here. Who needs that drama in their life?
I agree, just view her as a receptacle for your body fluids but when she has to go away, let her go.
 

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Dear Do You mind,
Why wont you guys post your age?how can one assess this situation without knowing how old you are?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why bother with the hassle. There arfe plenty of fish in the sea. I am assuming that you are a younger person and if so, remember, you have your whole life ahead of you, no need to rush:)
 

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Why bother with the hasle. There are many more fish in the sea. I am assuming that you are a younger person and if that is the case remember you have your whole life ahead of you. Dont rush:)
 

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Well, since the OP deleted the first post, all I've got to go on is the subject line. In which case I suggest the OP make sure she's not one of these types:

http://www.misstravel.com
 

Who Dares Win

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Girls who like to travel= girls who want to have new experiences= girls who get lot of ****s get damaged in body and behaviour.

You can easily say that most of girls who spent a semester studying abroad after all the party and attention are ruined, entitlement up to the sky due to guys chasing her in the dormitory, loose vagina due to guys actually catching her in the dormitory.

Do as the guys say and make her no more than a fvck buddy, you surely dont wanna invest your mental health in her.
 
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