"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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does she want more or not?

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i recently finished a number of sessions at a psycholoog (woman), nothing serious only for work thats it :D at my last session she told me i can always contact here if there are any questions or progressions.
I told her that i would email here, so i deed with the writing that i would like to thank her for her help and that i want to stop by.
She emaild me back that i can come during her brake :cheer:
my question is should i go and with what (flowers? or tickets to the movie)

or is this just being friendly?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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STOP!
HAMMERTIME
(I guess noone knows that anymore..)
no seriously stop and look down and click the link DJ BIBLE

now go and read as much as you can ;)
especially everything with *must read* and everything from senor fingerz and pook
 
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Rex Man

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Screw that, pop up with a Barry White CD and a fistful of flowers and you'll in there like booty hair.

But in all seriousness, ASSUME she's interested and boldly pursue (sans the flowers)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can you resist a woman who only really appears to want friendship? I perceive game to be as simple as reversing whats been done to me through analyzing my own subjective experience and reproducing it, let me guess its not that simple? Yea sure... mark77 Do you honestly give a god damn what you appear to be in the eyes of anyone? If so stop, chase your dreams, question everyones intention in your own mind. Your friends are your best enemies, get discontent, pissed and look around, who is surrounding you.. When you begin doing whats best for your self, people may seem to throw obstacles your way and get you to do other things but non the less they will eventually cling to you like your all existence ever was...
**** That Wacky *****.. Be her friend and confidently put her in a position you've been put to many times. She wants it anyways
 
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Bring her some flowers, chocolate and a poem.
 
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