Does she want just attention?

[djtdot]

So I met this chik a few days ago when she and her parents came to my place for dinner. She and I talked for quite a bit and found that we had common interests and stuff, like we are both outdoor person, same taste in music, pretty much the same view in politics and stuff. I just added her on msn. I didn't pursue more with her coz of my policy of not going out with chiks whose dads are my father's friends or colleagues.So I just messaged her on msn a few days later and had a small talk. She didn't even respond properly. I was like screw her and moved on. The next day she messages me and asks me whether I liked anybody and wanted her as my gf . Her mom told my mom that this girl is a "shy" girl. Shy my a$$. Ofcourse I told her that I don't take gfs a few days after meeting them. She is actually kinda cute.

Then a few days later on orkut(its like myspace) she got some friend requests from some guys, all friggin AFCs. Only after a few messages she asked them whether they have a gf or not. All these guys were just flattering her and stuff. Then this other guy messages her saying he loves her and she actually replied to him, and still kept talking to that loser.

I personally think she likes the attention, coz she is kinda the "underachiever" in the family. Her dad was a bigshot guy in a big bank. Her bro is a famous singer in the community, and is a PhD student at a top 10 university in USA. And this girl is just...well....normal. Maybe that's why? Oh and she went around to random strangers saying its her b'day tomorrow! Why the hell is she screaming for attention?

 

[Stuntmann]

She's being a nice girl while with her parents. SHY. But, a wh0re otherwise. She wants to be a wh0re.

Her parents are what's holding her back, imo.

On the internet she's a wh0re and wants attention. Thus, let her play, but block your self out of that by blocking her and deleting and ignoring.

Should you be able to get her out of her house with you, alone, just you two, she might be a cool chick to hang out with. Do know that's she's shy, yet wants to be a wh0re. Bring that wh0re out at a pace she's comfortable with.


Wait a few weeks, more than two, then call her parents home and ask for her, tell her with passion you going out and wondering if she wants to tag along with you, NOW!! Do whatever, and don't take no for an answer. If she says no call back and talk to her parents, tell them their darling angel is being shy. Sounds like a plan?


Also, you have to realize, what they do over the internet, and over the phone, is completely different from what they do in real life. There are two real lifes as well, life with parents, the people with whom she has a special angel face, and life without them, who she wish she could be. Aim for the latter, because all others aren't interesting.

 

[Ryan69]

She sounds like a teenager. This is the stuff teenage girls do

Understanding a teenage girl is like understanding the middle east...Good fvcking luck

Im talking for anybody who dated a teenager or is the father of a teenager

Girls in my highschool were fvcked. Now with myspace, msn text messaging etc they have more tools so they can torture guys LOL

Botton line. Teenage girls (or boys for that matter) have no clue what they want. And why should they. They are fvcking TEENAGERS

Just concentrate on having fun. I would'nt sweat it.

 

[KontrollerX]

Its possible she's just shy and is trying to be more outgoing.

Not every girl is an AW.

You should've played around and said you'd be her boyfriend.

If she became too clingy or did anything that would anger you then you cut ties but since you nexted her immediately she's talking to some AFC loser while you are now in the position of the guy with his d!ck in his hand.

If you get another shot take it and if you get a date isolate her and see if you can fvck the sh!t out of her.