Does she want commitment?

[pagemaster]

I am new here but a need a little advice.

I have been fu.cking this girl for just over three months. We don't go on dates, we just go at it. She gives good head and she satisfies me. We are not comitted to each other and I have always said that she can fu.ck whomever she wants as long as she tells me so that I don't get any disease. She is 19 (very attractive) and I am 27.

This Sunday we fooled around 4 times. She texts me on Monday as says that some guy in her class just asked her to go for a drink and I will let you know if anything happens. I replied "Ok".

Few hours later she texts me again "he took me to some bar where his ex works to try and make her jealous. What a loser!"


I never bothered replying.

I them reply that nice "Good night".

She texts back some stuff, I text back some stuff and then she tells me "I keep thinking about giving you head. I think I might use my vibrator tonight" at around 2:00am (keep in mind we fooled around 4 times the day before). I replied "have a good time, let me know if you get yourself off". She then replies "OMG, is was a tie as being good with you". I then repy "Good for you, I am happy for you"

She replies "Watever, ttyl"



What the fu.ck? What does she want?

 

[MacAvoy]

I think it was a sh1t test, she was tryin to get you pissed off, aka that a vibrator was better than you.

You passed, didn't fall for her trap. Avoid knowing so much about all of her other prowesses, you don't need to know when some other guy is nailing her. Its kinda AFC. You wouldn't want her knowing about the other women your nailing, just the fact that you are out there.

Make sure she is safe when she is not w/ you, and make sure your safe when your w/ her. Other than that, NO need to discuss her sucking some other guy off or get your approval.

 

[pagemaster]

Thanks man. That is what I thought I was. A test. I just replied at the end "Ok, ttyl goodnight"

I don't ask about her other stuff because I don't want to know.

 

[pagemaster]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
I Its kinda AFC. .

What does AFC mean?

 

[MacAvoy]

AFC = Average Frustrated Chump. A "nice guy". A guy who has no pick up skills and rarely manages to close a target pick up. Also a guy who tends to supplicate in his behavior to HBs. Meaning, buying flowers for a chick when going out for coffee, putting her on a pedestal, and generally letting women walk all over him in the vein hope of somehow being seen as attractive in their eyes. A common term used for AFCs that have seen the error of their ways but not yet gained PUA skills is RACF (Recovering AFC).

All acronyms, click the link

http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml

ps read the bible

 

[NewMan]

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I never bothered replying.

I them reply that nice "Good night".
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Why?

all this texting and good night BS is will push you down the path of relationship..... whether you mean to or not.

It's a delicate rope you walk on my friend.

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What does she want?
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It sounds like she wants more - no chick is going to swap text messages with you just for the hell of it - especially that part about going out with another guy.

why do you care about it anyways?

Or are you afraid she's going to go AWOL and dump your a##?

 

[pagemaster]

Originally posted by NewMan
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I never bothered replying.

I them reply that nice "Good night".
****

Why?

all this texting and good night BS is will push you down the path of relationship..... whether you mean to or not.

It's a delicate rope you walk on my friend.

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What does she want?
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It sounds like she wants more - no chick is going to swap text messages with you just for the hell of it - especially that part about going out with another guy.

why do you care about it anyways?

Or are you afraid she's going to go AWOL and dump your a##?

I never thought about it. Maybe. I just don't want her wanting more because if that happens I am out of it.



She has had many guys chasing her like crazy and she finds it interesting that I don't want a relationship like the others. She also said she moves on easy when a guy chases her around after they break up. She plays games. I know that but I guess I don't want anything more that what is going on.


She did say to me a month ago. "You got what you want (sex that is) and now you are a little different"



I think it is over soon but who knows.

 

[pagemaster]

Originally posted by NewMan
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I never bothered replying.

I them reply that nice "Good night".
****

Why?

all this texting and good night BS is will push you down the path of relationship..... whether you mean to or not.

It's a delicate rope you walk on my friend.

Never thought about it like that.

 

[NewMan]

She did say to me a month ago. "You got what you want (sex that is) and now you are a little different

Thats nothing to be ashamed of - you do want to fvck her - and if she was honest, that's what she wants as well..... she's just looking to pass the buck - it's a way for her to rationalize it.

I know that but I guess I don't want anything more that what is going on.

she is going to want more and will do all she can to make this a relationship. you need to be carefull and maintain an emotional distance. Calling and swapping texts and not the way to do this - you open communications and she will creep in like that bad song you hear on the radio.

 

[Royal Elite]

Bottom Line:
Go with Da Flow
If it aint broke dont fix it.

What you are doing is working for you NOW so why are you worrying about a FUTURE that doesnt exist.
There is only NOW if what you are doing is working NOW then keep doing it, if it isnt THEN you do something Different.

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
AFC = Average Frustrated Chump. A "nice guy". A guy who has no pick up skills and rarely manages to close a target pick up. Also a guy who tends to supplicate in his behavior to HBs. Meaning, buying flowers for a chick when going out for coffee, putting her on a pedestal, and generally letting women walk all over him in the vein hope of somehow being seen as attractive in their eyes. A common term used for AFCs that have seen the error of their ways but not yet gained PUA skills is RACF (Recovering AFC).

All acronyms, click the link

http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml

ps read the bible

AFCs are a joke. In the dating game, you have to be a dikk, if you want to get your dikk wet. For example, the other day, a woman called me over to HER table, for an invitation to sit, and talk. Well, I drink and smoke, so I lit one up, and she made a gesture that she hated cigarette smoke, and I promptly went through a pack as I KINOed her a$$. Number and kiss closed, baby.

BTW, for the original poster, just use her as a FB. Key word is "use"