does she wanna be my girlfriend?

[downsickness06]

There's this girl i like that goes to my high school. I have known here for a month or so and we never got really serious. Yesterday she asked me to go to the mall with her and i told her i hate shopping. She said ok and we changed plans to go somewhere else. Later that day we went over to one of her friends' houses and hung out there. There were a couple other of her friends that met us there. We all went into the parents' room and we watched some tv. Eventually the others wanted to go and grab some beer but the girl i like and I stayed. She wanted to play tetris on my phone and she kinda slipped her hand into mine and said to hold her. She said she suddenly felt sick but i think she just wanted to latch on to me. So we kinda cuddled for a bit then she asked me if i wanted to go to the park. We did and later as we got tired we sat on the bench with her friend there and she put her head on my shoulder and i put my arm around her.

All of this stuff happened and i just wanna know if shes wanting me to ask her out. By the way, one of her goofy friends asked her out a couple days ago and she rejected him and told me all about it.

So does this girl want me to be her boyfriend? And was she telling me about her friend who asked her out cause she wants me to do the same thing? Also she kept looking at me all night does she want a kiss from me or what?

 

[librito]

do not ask her out cause that is the wussy way to do it.
just kiss her man, thats the only way youll find out if she likes you or not.
go for it, she wants to sex you up.

 

[downsickness06]

i was thinkin about asking her out to eat and then moving in for the kiss when i drop her off at her house

good idea?

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

It really depends on how she usually acts around other males,if this is a new kind of behaviour she most probably likes you alot.I'm not a big fan of very vague tips such as "kiss her" so i'll try to give you some more detailed advise

1.Isolate
2.Escalate romantically (not so subtle kino).

Now from here you have to "read" her,does she seem very interested/comfortable/relaxed? then go for an kissclose,else #close and bail fast.If you already have her number then just bail with a genuine excuse.

"By the way, one of her goofy friends asked her out a couple days ago and she rejected him and told me all about it" <- This is a very strong IOI.

 

[Docs]

In agreeance with GI.

Isolate.
Escalate.
And goddamn kiss her!

 

[Jariel]

These are all very strong signals! Don't bother with asking her on a formal date, just ask her to hang out casually and when you have a moment alone with her, go for the kiss!

When you get into verbal displays of interest with a girl such as telling her you like her or asking her on a date, she has time to contemplate logically the pros and cons and talk herself out of it (even girls who are head over heels for a guy can find a reason or get cold feet). When you kiss her, you suddenly take charge of her emotions and sexual instincts and she'll do everything she can to pursue it!

I've asked girls out and been rejected, then kissed them at a later date and they've fallen for me and we started going out.

Keep her guessing for now up until you kiss her!