"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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does she still like me..?

tjf420

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Long story short, I worked on this girl who lives in my town foreverrr over a year + cuz i was really into her.. come to find out she pretty much just been leading me on all this time, but i still had some feelings for her. Some things happend and yada yada with her faggot brother(another story) and i didnt see her or talk to her for some time...

I thought she was done with me as well, now she all of a sudden likes txting me every other day, iming me etc... She still wants to hang out every now and then and i saw a movie with her the other night and she was resting her head on my shoulder so i just thought ughh good grief and didnt think much... Im trying not to like her so i dont get led on again thats why i never initiate the txting or iming or coming up with plans... Im just stuck on whether i should just give up on her and forget it all...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wow this site sucks
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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tjf420 said:
wow this site sucks
tjf420 said:
I worked on this girl who lives in my town foreverrr over a year + cuz i was really into her..
:whistle:
 

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she doesn't like you in a sexual way if its been a year and you haven't done anything with her. Getting physical with a chick happens pretty quick if its going to happen.

Could still crash and burn it who knows maybe it'll work. Meet up with her get her isolated by making up some bs that u want to show her at your place. Get her in your room keep it playful and fun the whole time, do funny things like tripping her, tickling her, play hitting her, throwing stuff at her etc. Ask her if shes a good kisser, if she says i don't know you say well lets find out and go for the kiss, if she says shes not a good kisser you laugh and say i don't believe you and go for the kiss, if she says yes you laugh and say hmmm i'm not sure if i believe you and go for the kiss.

If you get the kiss then your making out and things will progress, if not you can chalk it down as experience and go out and meet new chicks which you should always be doing anyways.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tjf420 said:
wow this site sucks
My god I swear if a chick was blowing some people they'd still be wondering if she likes them.

YOU MUST ESCALATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is the only way your going to know if she is attracted. If she pulls away and runs away then she isn't attracted, if she just pulls away but stays then it just means she isn't ready yet.

Litterally put her hand on your dik and see what happens, or go for the kiss. Do something and you will find out.

Guy is in a situation and is wondering if she's attracted then runs to the computer to ask "Is she attracted?"

ughh
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Snow Plowman said:
...Guy is in a situation and is wondering if she's attracted then runs to the computer to ask "Is she attracted?"

ughh
Want some of my meds? It seems to take some of the edge off when reading things like this...:cool:
 

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ahh my bad.. probly shld read more tips here and ther on this site :p
 
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