Does she seem interested or not, and are these IOIs to YOU?

[whosromeo]

This girl works in my building I live in. We have only spoken a few times over a few months. When I first met her, I needed her help for something. She assisted me and asked me lots of questions like what I study, where I am from, etc. while looking over and up at me as we walked that time. We talked for a couple minutes and I felt like she was moderately interested. I saw her a few other times, we said hey

-One time I asked her if she was going to an event. She seemed excited, saying, "When? What time? This event? I should definitely go!" and then "Are you going??" I had to leave right after that.
-She told me "Good night," and then "Bye, ______." She used my full first name several times, no one calls me that, only she has. It sparked my interest.
-When I approached her once, when we made eye contact she immediately looked down. And then at me again
-She teased me about not following certain rules
-I got a good grade on a test, and she congratulated me and gave me a fist bump (???)

That's all for now. Some of these things in the past were definitely signs girls have been interested. Please let me know what you think

 

[Plutoman]

Why not ask her to go grab some drinks with you and see? Sounds promising, but nothing's going to happen if you wait for her to start knocking on the door telling you she wants to be your lifelong partner.

... That'd be creepy anyways.

 

[Purefilth]

This girl works in my building I live in. We have only spoken a few times over a few months. When I first met her, I needed her help for something. She assisted me and asked me lots of questions like what I study, where I am from, etc. while looking over and up at me as we walked that time. We talked for a couple minutes and I felt like she was moderately interested. I saw her a few other times, we said hey

-One time I asked her if she was going to an event. She seemed excited, saying, "When? What time? This event? I should definitely go!" and then "Are you going??" I had to leave right after that.
-She told me "Good night," and then "Bye, ______." She used my full first name several times, no one calls me that, only she has. It sparked my interest.
-When I approached her once, when we made eye contact she immediately looked down. And then at me again
-She teased me about not following certain rules
-I got a good grade on a test, and she congratulated me and gave me a fist bump (???)

That's all for now. Some of these things in the past were definitely signs girls have been interested. Please let me know what you think

Not keen on the whole "works in the building where I live" sounds like ****ting on your doorstep.

However you'll only know for sure if you ask her out and she shows up. Then escalate and see where it goes.

Without making a move you'll never know if she's just being friendly.

 

[whosromeo]

not keen on it either, but what can you do?

 

[whosromeo]

need advice!!

 

[omega05]

they gave you advice. ask her out to drinks and get to know her more instead of asking if she might be interested in you

 

[JohnChops]

The only IOI you need is, "let me get your number " thus.followed by"drinks ,time and place". Don't get caught up In looking for signals for attraction its pointless .

 

[whosromeo]

i should also mention, this girl is from hispanic background. i know she speaks spanish. i don't know how different those girls are for this

 

[Plutoman]

Seriously - just take the chance, go for it, stop analyzing. Analyzing it and trying to guess what she's thinking, trying to see if ethnicity matters, just disregard it all. It will get you nowhere except in your bedroom watching porn.

This is experience talking. I used to do the same thing.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Ask her if she wants to come over for drinks and to 'watch a movie'?

She works in your building right?

Next time you see her, be like "what are you doing after work today? Would you want to come over and 'chill'?"