Does she like me?

[loco2chon]

Okay, here's the deal. There is this girl whom I talked to for about a year. We talk during the night unitl dawn a couple of times a week. She bustes out with 'cuddly' talk at night and just sets off... She has a profound trust in me. Enough to tell me one of her most personal secrets. Now, does she like me?

Please post your opinions and thoughts as well as any advice. Thank you,
-Juan

 

[decadentdestruction]

hey man I know wat u feel she problably has something for you

but women can always be unpredictable , this chick I knew did the same play this chick is doing to you , she told me she had an abortion , we would talk forever from dusk till dawn then when i started making my moves on her she ended up liking some other guy and basically kicked me to the curb, but hey man thanks to this site i managed to bounce back in the game , this place is never going to dissapoint you . don't get stuck in the friendzone talk to her and ask her out ( not like hey do u like me i like u) but just start hanging out with her.

 

[loco2chon]

Hmm... I just barely going through the bible and this is all new to me... I love it. I'm going to bed and thinking about my life... We'll just have to see if she is interested when I bust a move...

 

[Rebound Material]

Hmm... I just barely going through the bible and this is all new to me... I love it. I'm going to bed and thinking about my life... We'll just have to see if she is interested when I bust a move...

Better make that move SOON....you don't want to be the guy that just "missed the bus."

 

[TruthHurts]

Need more info

Need more info...

is this long distance...
how did you meet
how well you know her (i.e. was this a pen pal, or did you meet before)
have you had any kind of relations
what level of relations
how many times
how far
what u know
does she have anyone else
how far
how old
etc etc....
answer those questions first...
but... if i can tell you this, if you already need to ask, it means you have doubt.. which means, the "like" your looking for is probably not there, not there yet, or may never be, or you would like to have appear or formulate

 

[Hyde]

Right now, you're in what us guys like to call "the friend zone". This means, right now, you're more of a girlfriend to her then a boyfriend. You need to establish your intentions. You need to let her know that you don't want to be in the friend zone. You need to grab your balls the next time you talk to her and say, "*****! I want to tap that shiiiyeeet". Okay, don't quite say it like that, but you get the point.

 

[decadentdestruction]

word up man dont get caught in the friend zone and become her best friend without no benefits

 

[decadentdestruction]

hey if it dont work out your 20 yrs old , am 20 yrs old man , remember there are tons of other chicks out there

 

[TruthHurts]

Personally, I think he's already entrenched in the friend zone like a tick on a raggy dog. A year? You're not gonna hit that sh*t. I'll eat my hat if you do.

yeah.... year too long... while you been thinking your "on the right track" by talking to her for a year... some guy banging her brains out after barely meeting her...

 

[christz]

again broad statements are being made, i was best friends with a chick for 5 years how about them apples all i did was flip it on her because i really wanted to be with her within a few months she admitted her undying love for me.. And she gave me every single LJBF excuse in the book.

hell i even said lets pretend you met me before "him" who would you pick? Know what she said? "i'd pick him" ooo burn right NO i had a year long relationship with that chick, and it was pretty damn sweet.

so don't say "he's entrenched in the friends zone" because we don't know what the actual situation is..

so let me tell you, make it clear that you want to be with her, and would like to see where things would go.

 

[foamy]

"Enough to tell me one of her most personal secrets."
Unless that secret is that she's a lesbian, you could win here.

However, I am at this time 100% sure that you're in the "friends" catiogory. To get out, you're going to have to do something VERY obvious as to what you're intentions are.
First, what do you want?
To be FWB? (Sex)?
To be in a relationship with her? (BF, GF)?

If you want to have sex, then it could be easer and harder at the same time. The first FWB I ever had was a very close friend, and it was her idea (I was very AFC at the time) Just talk more about sexual things, then when she tells you she's horny, tell her to prove it...
If you want to go out with her, (relationship) then just take her on a date, nice date, and then kiss her at the end of the date. She'll get the idea.


Foamy

 

[loco2chon]

Actually... She's a religious chick... A virgin. She got close to doing it with a guy once, but didn't. That's actually the thing nobody else knows. She totally regrets it and now I know she'll be very cautious about everyone. To tell you the truth... I'd really like this chick as a gf. Girls like this one are hard to find these days. I know if it doesn't work out I have to go to the next one. But its a bit hard for me at the moment. I've known her for about five years. The closest I've gotten to kudos with her is going through a field at night and holding hands. We were playing hide and seek. That night it all began. I got her number and called her like a lot... :-/ I know i shouldn't have done that but I had no idea bout this site. I'm kind of learning from my mistake. LoL Okay here it goes. I'm pretty darn sure I already killed this relationship. I told her I liked her. Something I shouldn't have done because made me look like needy and stuff. I fu**d up there. She's a Jehovah's Witness... She will only date Jehovah's Witnesses... Maybe that's why she rejected me.... Then again... I don't know. What do you guys think? Oh... And she has told me she wanted to hug me one time when we were talking. She told me through the phone later that night... Is this friend zone status?

 

[decadentdestruction]

you told her you liked her? holy **** dude hey yo whoever replied to this post yo we need to give this guy a helping hand.

religious chicks are sketchy man.. some can be freaks if you lucky enough to find one. yo check this... I met this girl once at my last job she was middle eastern and Muslim; this chick she was hot , she would flirt with me.. so i got the balls one day and asked for her number ,got her number . i did the whole wait 3 days and the whole i don't give a f**k attitude with her dude long story short i did everything this site could offer me man, so the one day I call her up to set up a movie night with her* (i did not ask her out with the whole will you out with me thing) i was talking with her and one thing led to another so we ended agreeing to go to the movies. so the night at the movies arrives she told me to go and pick her up and she freaking blows me off on the phone , and started acting like a ***** with me then i come to find out she wasn't allowed to date guys that were not Muslim. they had to be pure and be tattoo free and sin free or some crap like that. so thats why i try to stay clear off religious chicks

 

[loco2chon]

LOL... Jehovah's Witnesses are way different. Actually no... But they don't go all wild out like that. I actually started going to those meetings of their church. It's alright...